وَحَدَّثَنِي ، عَنْ مَالِك ، عَنْ
نَافِعٍ ، عَنْ
نُبَيْهِ بْنِ وَهْبٍ أَخِي بَنِي عَبْدِ الدَّارِ ، أَنَّ عُمَرَ بْنَ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ أَرْسَلَ إِلَى أَبَانَ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ ، وَأَبَانُ يَوْمَئِذٍ أَمِيرُ الْحَاجِّ ، وَهُمَا مُحْرِمَانِ إِنِّي قَدْ أَرَدْتُ أَنْ أُنْكِحَ طَلْحَةَ بْنَ عُمَرَ ، بِنْتَ شَيْبَةَ بْنِ جُبَيْرٍ وَأَرَدْتُ أَنْ تَحْضُرَ فَأَنْكَرَ ذَلِكَ عَلَيْهِ
أَبَانُ ، وَقَالَ : سَمِعْتُ
عُثْمَانَ بْنَ عَفَّانَ ، يَقُولُ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ :
" لَا يَنْكِحِ الْمُحْرِمُ وَلَا يُنْكِحُ وَلَا يَخْطُبُ "
It is narrated from Nabiya bin Wahb that Umar bin Ubaidullah sent him to Sayyiduna Aban bin Uthman (may Allah be pleased with him), and Sayyiduna Aban (may Allah be pleased with him) was, in those days, the leader of the pilgrims, and both of them were in the state of ihram. He sent a message saying that I wish to arrange the marriage of Talha bin Umar with the daughter of Shaibah bin Jubair, so you also come. Sayyiduna Aban (may Allah be pleased with him) refused this and said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) say: "A person in ihram should neither marry himself nor arrange the marriage of another, nor send a proposal for marriage."