موطا امام مالك رواية يحييٰ
Muwatta Imam Malik (Riwayat Yahya)
كتاب الطلاقBook: On the Explanation of Divorce
بَابُ مَا جَاءَ فِي الْإِحْدَادِWhat is Reported Regarding Mourning
Hadith 1247
وَحَدَّثَنِي، عَنْ وَحَدَّثَنِي، عَنْ مَالِك، عَنْ نَافِعٍ، " أَنَّ صَفِيَّةَ بِنْتَ أَبِي عُبَيْدٍ اشْتَكَتْ عَيْنَيْهَا وَهِيَ حَادٌّ عَلَى زَوْجِهَا عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ، فَلَمْ تَكْتَحِلْ حَتَّى كَادَتْ عَيْنَاهَا تَرْمَصَانِ " . قَالَ مَالِك : تَدَّهِنُ الْمُتَوَفَّى عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا بِالزَّيْتِ وَالشِّيرِقِ وَمَا أَشْبَهَ ذَلِكَ، إِذَا لَمْ يَكُنْ فِيهِ طِيبٌ . قَالَ مَالِك : وَلَا تَلْبَسُ الْمَرْأَةُ الْحَادُّ عَلَى زَوْجِهَا شَيْئًا مِنَ الْحَلْيِ، خَاتَمًا، وَلَا خَلْخَالًا، وَلَا غَيْرَ ذَلِكَ مِنَ الْحَلْيِ، وَلَا تَلْبَسُ شَيْئًا مِنَ الْعَصْبِ، إِلَّا أَنْ يَكُونَ عَصْبًا غَلِيظًا، وَلَا تَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا بِشَيْءٍ مِنَ الصِّبْغِ إِلَّا بِالسَّوَادِ، وَلَا تَمْتَشِطُ إِلَّا بِالسِّدْرِ، وَمَا أَشْبَهَهُ مِمَّا لَا يَخْتَمِرُ فِي رَأْسِهَا
Hazrat Safiyyah bint Abu Ubaid was in mourning for her husband, that is, Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them). She did not apply kohl, and her eyes were hurting until discharge began to appear.
Imam Malik (may Allah have mercy on him) said: A woman who is in mourning for her husband should not wear any kind of jewelry, neither a ring, nor anklets, nor any other jewelry, nor Yemeni cloth unless it is thick and coarse, nor colored cloth except black, nor should she comb her hair, nor apply henna, except that she may wash her hair with leaves of the lote tree or something else that does not have fragrance. Imam Malik (may Allah have mercy on him) said: If a woman's husband dies, she may apply olive oil or sesame oil that does not have fragrance.
Imam Malik (may Allah have mercy on him) said: A woman who is in mourning for her husband should not wear any kind of jewelry, neither a ring, nor anklets, nor any other jewelry, nor Yemeni cloth unless it is thick and coarse, nor colored cloth except black, nor should she comb her hair, nor apply henna, except that she may wash her hair with leaves of the lote tree or something else that does not have fragrance. Imam Malik (may Allah have mercy on him) said: If a woman's husband dies, she may apply olive oil or sesame oil that does not have fragrance.
