حَدَّثَنِي حَدَّثَنِي يَحْيَى، عَنْ مَالِك، عَنْ
عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْقَاسِمِ ، عَنْ
أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ أُمِّ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ : أَنَّهَا خَطَبَتْ عَلَى عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرٍ، قُرَيْبَةَ بِنْتَ أَبِي أُمَيَّةَ، فَزَوَّجُوهُ، ثُمَّ إِنَّهُمْ عَتَبُوا عَلَى عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، وَقَالُوا : مَا زَوَّجْنَا إِلَّا عَائِشَةَ، فَأَرْسَلَتْ عَائِشَةُ إِلَى عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، فَذَكَرَتْ ذَلِكَ لَهُ،
" فَجَعَلَ أَمْرَ قُرَيْبَةَ بِيَدِهَا، فَاخْتَارَتْ زَوْجَهَا، فَلَمْ يَكُنْ ذَلِكَ طَلَاقًا "
It is narrated from Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) that she sent a message from her brother, Sayyiduna Abdur Rahman (may Allah be pleased with him), to Qareeba bint Abi Umayyah. Her people married her to Sayyiduna Abdur Rahman (may Allah be pleased with him). Afterwards, there was a dispute, and those people said: "This marriage was arranged by Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her)." Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) spoke to Sayyiduna Abdur Rahman (may Allah be pleased with him). Sayyiduna Abdur Rahman (may Allah be pleased with him) gave her the choice. Qareeba chose her husband, and this was not considered a divorce.