Muwatta Imam Malik (Riwayat Ibn al-Qasim)

And with this same chain of narration, it is narrated that it was mentioned in the presence of the Prophet’s wife, Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), that Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) says: Indeed, the deceased is punished because of the weeping of his family members. So she said: May Allah forgive Abu Abdur Rahman (Abdullah bin Umar), he did not lie, but he forgot or made a mistake. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) passed by (the grave of) a Jewish woman whose family was weeping over her, so he (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “They are weeping over her, and she is being punished in her grave.”