مسند اسحاق بن راهويه
Musnad Ishaq bin Rahwiya
كتاب النكاح و الطلاقBook of Marriage and Divorce
Etiquette of greeting non-mahram women and ingratitude of a wife to her husband
Hadith 610
أَخْبَرَنَا الْمُلَائِيُّ، نا ابْنُ أَبِي غَنِيَّةَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مُهَاجِرٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ يَزِيدَ قَالَتْ: مَرَّ بِنَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَنَحْنُ جِوَارُ أَتْرَابٍ، فَقَالَ: ((إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ)) . فَقُلْتُ: وَمَا كُفْرُ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ؟ فَقَالَ: " لَعَلَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَطُولُ أَيْمَتُهَا حَتَّى تَعْنَسَ فَيُزَوِّجُهَا اللَّهُ زَوْجًا دَلًّا فَتَغْضَبَ الْغَضْبَةَ فَتَقُولُ: مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْرًا قَطُّ ".
Sayyida Asma bint Yazid (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) passed by us while we were girls of the same age, and he said: “Avoid being ungrateful for «منعمين».” We asked: What is meant by being ungrateful for «منعمين»? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “It may be that one of you remains unmarried for a long time until she grows old without marriage, then Allah grants her a husband and children, and then in a fit of anger she says: I have never seen any good from you.”
