مسند اسحاق بن راهويه
Musnad Ishaq bin Rahwiya
كتاب النكاح و الطلاقBook of Marriage and Divorce
Etiquette of greeting non-mahram women and ingratitude of a wife to her husband
Hadith 608
أَخْبَرَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي حُسَيْنٍ، قَالَ إِسْحَاقُ: وَهُوَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي حُسَيْنٍ، عَنْ شَهْرِ بْنِ حَوْشَبٍ، عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ يَزِيدَ قَالَتْ: مَرَّ عَلَيْنَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَنَحْنُ جُلُوسٌ فِي نِسْوَةٍ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْنَا، ثُمَّ قَالَ: ((إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ)) ، قُلْنَا: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، وَمَا كُفْرُ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ؟ فَقَالَ: " لَعَلَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَكُونُ أَيِّمًا بَيْنَ أَبَوَيْهَا فَيَرْزُقَهَا اللَّهُ زَوْجًا وَيَرْزُقَهَا مِنْهُ مَالًا وَوَلَدًا، فَتَغْضَبُ الْغَضْبَةَ فَتَقُولُ: مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْرًا قَطُّ " قَالَ إِسْحَاقُ: هَكَذَا قَالَ سُفْيَانُ أَوْ نَحْوَهُ.
Lady Asma bint Yazid (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) passed by us while we were sitting among women. He greeted us with peace, then said: “Beware of «منعمين» (those who do good, husbands) and do not be ungrateful to them.” We asked: O Messenger of Allah! What is meant by being ungrateful to «منعمين»? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “It may be that one of you is with her parents before marriage, then Allah grants her a husband and blesses her with wealth and children through him, but then (the woman), in anger, says: I have never seen any good from you.”
