Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated from the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), he (peace be upon him) said: "Whoever turns a servant against his people (master), he is not from among us, and whoever turns a woman against her husband, then he is not from among us."
Hadith Referenceمسند اسحاق بن راهويه / كتاب النكاح و الطلاق / 598
Hadith Takhrij«سنن ابوداود ، كتاب الطلاق ، باب فيمن خبب امراة على زوجها ، رقم : 2175 . قال الشيخ الالباني : صحيح . صحيح ترغيب وترهيب ، رقم : 2014 . مسند احمد : 397/2 .»
Explanation & Benefits
Hafiz Abdush Shakoor Tirmidhi
Benefits: From the aforementioned hadith, it is understood that inciting a slave against his master and a wife against her husband is forbidden (haram). Because by doing so, misunderstandings will arise between them, the result of which will be discord and corruption. Whereas, the quality of a believer is that he brings about reconciliation among people. As Allah the Exalted says: ﴿وَالْمُؤْمِنُوْنَوَالْمُؤْمِنٰتُبَعْضُهُمْاَوْلِیَآءُبَعْضٍیَاْمُرُوْنَبِالْمَعْرُوْفِوَیَنْهَوْنَعَنِالْمُنْکَرِ﴾ ().... “The believing men and believing women are allies of one another; they enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong.”
In another place, He says: ﴿اِِنَّمَاالْمُؤْمِنُوْنَاِِخْوَةٌفَاَصْلِحُوْابَیْنَاَخَوَیْکُمْوَاتَّقُوااللّٰهَلَعَلَّکُمْتُرْحَمُوْنَ﴾ ().... “All Muslims are brothers, so make peace between your two brothers and fear Allah so that you may receive mercy.”
And likewise, inciting a master against his slave and a husband against his wife is also not permissible; this too is forbidden (haram).