مسند اسحاق بن راهويه
Musnad Ishaq bin Rahwiya
كتاب الجنائزBook of Funerals
Statement about women's pledge and prohibition of wailing
Hadith 266
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ، نا عَاصِمٌ، نا حَفْصَةُ بِنْتُ سِيرِينَ، عَنْ أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ قَالَتْ: لَمَّا نَزَلَتْ: ﴿إِذَا جَاءَكَ الْمُؤْمِنَاتُ يُبَايِعْنَكَ عَلَى أَنْ لَا يُشْرِكْنَ بِاللَّهِ شَيْئًا وَلَا يَسْرِقْنَ وَلَا يَزْنِينَ﴾ [الممتحنة: 12] إِلَى قَوْلِهِ: ﴿وَلَا يَعْصِينَكَ فِي مَعْرُوفٍ﴾ [الممتحنة: 12] قَالَتْ: مِنْهَا النِّيَاحَةُ، قَالَتْ: فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، إِلَّا بَنِي فُلَانٍ فَإِنَّهُمْ كَانُوا أَسْعَدُونِي فِي الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ فَلَا بُدَّ مِنْ إِسْعَادِهِمْ فَقَالَ: ((إِلَّا بَنِي فُلَانٍ)).
Lady Umm Atiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated: When this verse was revealed: "When believing women come to you to pledge that they will not associate anything with Allah, will not steal, will not commit adultery... and will not disobey you in what is right," she (Umm Atiyyah) said: Lamentation (wailing) was also included in this. I said: O Messenger of Allah! Except for the women of such-and-such tribe, for they helped me in the days of ignorance, so it is necessary for me to help them. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Except for the women of such-and-such tribe."
