Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrated that Sa'b bin Jaththamah (may Allah be pleased with him) informed me that he heard the Prophet ﷺ being asked about the ruling concerning the families of the polytheists when a night raid is carried out against them and small children and women are also affected by it. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ replied: "They are from among them." Amr bin Dinar narrated from Zuhri with these additional words: "They are from among their fathers." (Meaning, they belong to the same lineage.)
Hadith Referenceمسند الإمام الشافعي / كتاب الجهاد وقسم الغنائم / 1736
Hadith Takhrijاخرجه البخارى الجهاد والسير باب اهل الدار يبتون فيصاب الولدان والذارى (3012)، (3013)۔ ومسلم، الجهاد، باب جواز قتل النساء والصبيان في البيات من غير عمد (1745)۔
It is narrated from Sa'b bin Jaththamah Al-Laithi (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (ﷺ) was asked about the ruling concerning the families of the polytheists when a night raid is carried out against them, and small children and women are also affected by it. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: "They are from among them." Sometimes Sufyan (may Allah have mercy on him) narrated the words in the hadith as: "They are from among their fathers."
Hadith Referenceمسند الإمام الشافعي / كتاب الجهاد وقسم الغنائم / 1737