مسند الإمام الشافعي
Musnad Imam Shafi'i
كتاب الطلاقChapter 16
بَابٌ مِنْهُ فِي الطَّلَاقِ الثَّلَاثِ بَعْدَ الدُّخُولِ
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Hadith 1253
أَخْبَرَنَا الشَّافِعِيُّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ بْنِ [ ص: 101 ] الزُّبَيْرِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، أَنَّ امْرَأَةَ رِفَاعَةَ جَاءَتْ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَتْ: إِنَّ رِفَاعَةَ طَلَّقَنِي فَبَتَّ طَلَاقِي، وَإِنَّ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ تَزَوَّجَنِي وَإِنَّمَا مَعَهُ مِثْلُ هُدْبَةِ الثَّوْبِ. فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: "تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ؟ لَا حَتَّى تَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ وَيَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ" .
It is narrated from the noble wife of the Prophet ﷺ, Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), that the wife of Rifa’ah (al-Qurazi) came to the Prophet ﷺ and said: Rifa’ah (may Allah be pleased with him) divorced me, and it was an irrevocable (final) divorce. Then ‘Abdur Rahman bin Zubair married me, but he has something like the edge of a garment (i.e., he is impotent). So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Do you wish to return to Rifa’ah? That is not permissible until you taste his (your current husband’s) sweetness and he tastes yours.”
Hadith 1254
أَخْبَرَنَا مَالِكٌ، عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيِّ، عَنِ الزُّبَيْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ [ ص: 102 ] بْنِ الزُّبَيْرِ: أَنَّ رِفَاعَةَ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ تَمِيمَةَ بِنْتَ وَهْبٍ فِي عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ثَلَاثًا، فَنَكَحَهَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ الزَّبِيرِ، فَاعْتَرَضَ عَنْهَا فَلَمْ يَسْتَطِعْ أَنْ يَمَسَّهَا، وَفَارَقَهَا فَأَرَادَ رِفَاعَةُ أَنْ يَنْكِحَهَا وَهُوَ زَوْجُهَا الْأَوَّلُ الَّذِي كَانَ طَلَّقَهَا، فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَنَهَاهُ أَنْ يَتَزَوَّجَهَا وَقَالَ: "لَا تَحِلُّ لَكَ حَتَّى تَذُوقَ الْعُسَيْلَةَ" .
It is narrated from Zubair bin Abdur Rahman bin Zubair that Rifa’ah (may Allah be pleased with him) divorced his wife Tamimah bint Wahb three times during the time of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. Then Abdur Rahman bin Zubair (may Allah be pleased with him) married her, but he separated from her before consummating the marriage. So Rifa’ah (may Allah be pleased with him), who was her first husband and had divorced her, wanted to marry her again. This matter was mentioned to the Prophet ﷺ, so he forbade him from marrying her and said: “She is not lawful for you until she tastes the sweetness of marriage with her present husband.”
Hadith 1255
أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ سَمِعَهَا تَقُولُ: جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةُ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيِّ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ: إِنِّي كُنْتُ عِنْدَ رِفَاعَةَ وَطَلَّقَنِي فَبَتَّ طَلَاقِي فَتَزَوَّجْتُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ، وَإِنَّمَا مَعَهُ مِثْلُ هُدْبَةِ الثَّوْبِ، فَتَبَسَّمَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، وَقَالَ: "أَتُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ؟ لَا حَتَّى تَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ وَيَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ" ، قَالَ: وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَخَالِدُ بْنُ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْعَاصِ بِالْبَابِ يَنْتَظِرُ أَنْ يُؤْذَنَ لَهُ فَنَادَى: يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ، أَلَا تَسْمَعُ مَا تَجْهَرُ بِهِ هَذِهِ عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ؟ ! .
It is narrated from the noble wife of the Prophet ﷺ, Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), that she said: The wife of Rifa’ah (may Allah be pleased with him) al-Qurazi came to the Prophet ﷺ and said, "I was the wife of Rifa’ah and he gave me an irrevocable divorce. Then I married Abdur Rahman bin Zubair (may Allah be pleased with him), and with him, he is like the edge of a garment (i.e., he is impotent)." The Messenger of Allah ﷺ smiled at this and said, "Do you wish to return to Rifa’ah? This will not be permissible for you until you and your present husband have consummated the marriage." Urwah said: Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) and the Prophet ﷺ were sitting there, while Khalid bin Sa’id bin al-As (may Allah be pleased with him) was standing at the door, waiting for permission to enter. He called out, "O Abu Bakr! Do you not hear what this woman is saying to the Prophet ﷺ?"
Hadith 1256
أَخْبَرَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا: أَنَّهُ سَمِعَهَا تَقُولُ: جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةُ رِفَاعَةَ، يَعْنِي: الْقُرَظِيَّ، إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ: إِنِّي كُنْتُ عِنْدَ رِفَاعَةَ، فَطَلَّقَنِي فَبَتَّ طَلَاقِي، فَتَزَوَّجْتُ بَعْدَهُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ، وَإِنَّمَا مَعَهُ مِثْلُ هُدْبَةِ الثَّوْبِ فَتَبَسَّمَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَقَالَ: "تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ؟ لَا حَتَّى يَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ وَتَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ" . وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَخَالِدُ بْنُ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْعَاصِ بِالْبَابِ يَنْتَظِرُ أَنْ يُؤْذَنَ لَهُ فَنَادَى: يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ، أَلَا تَسْمَعُ مَا تَجْهَرُ بِهِ هَذِهِ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ. أَخْرَجَ الْأَوَّلَ مِنْ كِتَابِ الرِّسَالَةِ وَالثَّانِيَ وَالثَّالِثَ مِنْ كِتَابِ الرَّجْعَةِ وَالرَّابِعَ مِنَ الْجُزْءِ الثَّانِي مِنَ اخْتِلَافِ الْحَدِيثِ.
Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated that the wife of Rifa’ah Al-Qurazi came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said: “I was with Rifa’ah (may Allah be pleased with him) and he divorced me three times. Then after him, I married Abdur Rahman bin Zubair (may Allah be pleased with him), and with him, he is like the edge of a garment (i.e., he is impotent).” Upon hearing this, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ smiled and said: “Do you wish to return to Rifa’ah? This cannot happen until he tastes your sweetness and you taste his sweetness.” Abu Bakr (may Allah be pleased with him) was sitting with the Prophet ﷺ, while Khalid bin Sa’id bin Al-As (may Allah be pleased with him) was standing at the door waiting for permission. He called out: “O Abu Bakr! Do you not hear what this woman is saying to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ?”
