مسند الإمام الشافعي
Musnad Imam Shafi'i
كتاب عشرة النساء والإيلاء والخلعChapter 15
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Hadith 1215
أَخْبَرَنَا الشَّافِعِيُّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنِ ابْنِ الْمُسَيِّبِ: أَنَّ بِنْتَ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مَسْلَمَةَ كَانَتْ عِنْدَ رَافِعِ بْنِ خَدِيجٍ، فَكَرِهَ مِنْهَا أَمْرًا؛ إِمَّا كِبْرًا أَوْ غَيْرَهُ، فَأَرَادَ طَلَاقَهَا فَقَالَتْ: لَا تُطَلِّقْنِي، وَأَمْسِكْنِي وَاقْسِمْ لِي مَا بَدَا لَكَ، فَأَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ: وَإِنِ امْرَأَةٌ خَافَتْ مِنْ بَعْلِهَا نُشُوزًا [النِّسَاءِ: 128] الْآيَةَ.
It is narrated from Sa'id bin al-Musayyib (may Allah have mercy on him) that the daughter of Muhammad bin Maslamah was married to Rafi' bin Khadij (may Allah be pleased with him). Due to old age or some other reason, he began to dislike her. When he intended to divorce her, his wife said: "Do not divorce me, keep me with you and decide about my turn as you wish." Then Allah Almighty revealed this verse: "And if a woman fears indifference from her husband..." __QUR_N__
Hadith 1216
أَخْبَرَنَا مُسْلِمٌ، عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ، سَمِعَهُ يَقُولُ: تَزَوَّجَ عَقِيلُ بْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتَ عُتْبَةَ. فَقَالَتْ لَهُ: اصْبِرْ لِي وَأُنْفِقُ عَلَيْكَ، وَكَانَ إِذَا دَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا تَقُولُ لَهُ: أَيْنَ عُتْبَةُ وَشَيْبَةُ؟ فَسَكَتَ عَنْهَا، فَدَخَلَ يَوْمًا بَرِمًا، فَقَالَتْ: أَيْنَ عُتْبَةُ بْنُ رَبِيعَةَ وَأَيْنَ شَيْبَةُ بْنُ رَبِيعَةَ؟ فَقَالَ: عَلَى يَسَارِكِ فِي النَّارِ إِذَا دَخَلْتِ. فَشَدَّتْ عَلَيْهَا ثِيَابَهَا فَجَاءَتْ عُثْمَانَ بْنَ عَفَّانَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ فَذَكَرَتْ لَهُ ذَلِكَ فَأَرْسَلَ ابْنَ عَبَّاسٍ وَمُعَاوِيَةَ، فَقَالَ ابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ: لَأُفَرِّقَنَّ بَيْنَهُمَا. وَقَالَ مُعَاوِيَةُ: مَا كُنْتُ لَأُفَرِّقَ بَيْنَ شَيْخَيْنِ مِنْ بَنِي عَبْدِ مَنَافٍ. قَالَ: فَأَتَيَاهُمَا فَوَجَدَاهُمَا قَدْ شَدَّا عَلَيْهِمَا أَثْوَابَهُمَا فَأَصْلَحَا أَمْرَهُمَا.
Ibn Abi Mulaika narrates that Aqil bin Abi Talib (may Allah be pleased with him) married Fatimah bint Utbah. Fatimah said to him: "You stay with me and I will spend on you." Whenever he would come to her, she (Fatimah) would say: "Where are Utbah and Shaybah?" Upon hearing this, he would remain silent. One day, he entered the house feeling annoyed, and Fatimah said: "Where are Utbah bin Rabi'ah and Shaybah bin Rabi'ah?" Aqil (may Allah be pleased with him) angrily said: "When you enter Hell, they will be on your left side." (This statement was very hard on her) so she tied her clothes and went to Uthman bin Affan (may Allah be pleased with him) and related the whole matter to him. Uthman (may Allah be pleased with him) sent Ibn Abbas and Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with them both) (to decide the matter). Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) said: "I will surely separate them," and Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "I will not allow separation between the two elders of Banu Abd Manaf." Ibn Abi Mulaika said that when both of them came to him, they found him extremely angry, then both of them reconciled between them.
Hadith 1217
أَخْبَرَنَا الثَّقَفِيُّ، عَنْ أَيُّوبَ، عَنِ ابْنِ سِيرِينَ، عَنْ عَبِيدَةَ أَنَّهُ قَالَ فِي هَذِهِ الْآيَةِ: وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ شِقَاقَ بَيْنِهِمَا فَابْعَثُوا حَكَمًا مِنْ أَهْلِهِ وَحَكَمًا مِنْ أَهْلِهَا [النِّسَاءِ: 35] . قَالَ: جَاءَ رَجُلٌ وَامْرَأَةٌ إِلَى عَلِيٍّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ، وَمَعَ كُلِّ وَاحِدٍ مِنْهُمَا فِئَامٌ مِنَ النَّاسِ، فَأَمَرَهُمْ عَلِيٌّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ فَبَعَثُوا حَكَمًا مِنْ أَهْلِهِ وَحَكَمًا مِنْ أَهْلِهَا، ثُمَّ قَالَ لِلْحَكَمَيْنِ: تَدْرِيَانِ مَا عَلَيْكُمَا إِنْ رَأَيْتُمَا أَنْ تَجْمَعَا وَإِنْ رَأَيْتُمَا أَنْ تُفَرِّقَا، قَالَ: قَالَتِ الْمَرْأَةُ: رَضِيتُ بِكِتَابِ اللَّهِ بِمَا عَلَيَّ فِيهِ وَلِي. وَقَالَ الرَّجُلُ: أَمَّا الْفُرْقَةُ فَلَا، فَقَالَ عَلِيٌّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ: كَذَبْتَ وَاللَّهِ حَتَّى تُقِرَّ بِمِثْلِ الَّذِي أَقَرَّتْ بِهِ.
It is narrated from Ubaidah (may Allah have mercy on him) regarding this verse: "If you fear a breach between them (the husband and wife), appoint two arbiters, one from his family and the other from hers" (An-Nisa: 35), that during the caliphate of Ali (may Allah be pleased with him), a husband and wife came to him along with people from their respective families. Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) ordered them to appoint one arbiter from the man's family and one from the woman's family. Then he (may Allah be pleased with him) said to the two arbiters: "Do you know what your task is? If you deem it appropriate, reconcile them, and if you wish, separate them." Upon hearing this, the woman said: "I am content with the decision of Allah's Book, whether it is reconciliation or separation," and the man said: "I do not accept separation." At this, Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) said: "By Allah, you are lying; you must accept both options in the same way."
Hadith 1218
أَخْبَرَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْمُسَيِّبِ، قَالَ: كَانَتْ بِنْتُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مَسْلَمَةَ عِنْدَ رَافِعِ بْنِ خَدِيجٍ، فَكَرِهَ مِنْهَا شَيْئًا إِمَّا كِبْرًا وَإِمَّا غَيْرَهُ فَأَرَادَ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَهَا فَقَالَتْ: لَا تُطَلِّقْنِي وَأَنَا أَحِلُّ لَكَ. فَنَزَلَ فِي ذَلِكَ: وَإِنِ امْرَأَةٌ خَافَتْ مِنْ بَعْلِهَا نُشُوزًا أَوْ إِعْرَاضًا [النِّسَاءِ: 128] الْآيَةَ. قَالَ: فَمَضَتْ بِذَلِكَ السُّنَّةُ. أَخْرَجَ الثَّلَاثَةَ الْأَحَادِيثَ مِنْ كِتَابِ الْخُلْعِ وَالنُّشُوزِ وَالرَّابِعَ مِنْ كِتَابِ النِّكَاحِ مِنَ الْإِمْلَاءِ.
Saeed bin Musayyib (may Allah have mercy on him) narrated that the daughter of Muhammad bin Maslamah was married to Rafi’ bin Khadij (may Allah be pleased with him). Due to old age or some other reason, he began to dislike her, to the extent that he intended to divorce her. Then she said: "Do not divorce me; I forgo my rights." Upon this, the verse was revealed: "And if a woman fears from her husband contempt or evasion..." (__QUR_N__: An-Nisa: 128). He said: Then this practice became established.
