مسند الإمام الشافعي
Musnad Imam Shafi'i
كتاب النكاحChapter 14
بَابُ زَوَاجِ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا
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Hadith 1105
أَخْبَرَنَا الشَّافِعِيُّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ، قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الْمَجِيدِ، عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ، عَنْ حَبِيبِ بْنِ أَبِي ثَابِتٍ: أَنَّ عَبْدَ الْحَمِيدِ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي عَمْرٍو، وَالْقَاسِمَ بْنَ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ بْنِ هِشَامٍ أَخْبَرَاهُ، أَنَّهُمَا سَمِعَا أَبَا بَكْرِ بْنَ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ بْنِ هِشَامٍ يُحَدِّثُ، عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ أَنَّهَا أَخْبَرَتْهُ: أَنَّهَا لَمَّا قَدِمَتِ الْمَدِينَةَ أَخْبَرَتْهُمْ أَنَّهَا ابْنَةُ أَبِي أُمَيَّةَ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ فَكَذَّبُوهَا، وَقَالُوا: مَا أَكْذَبَ الْغَرَائِبَ! ، حَتَّى أَنْشَأَ إِنْسَانٌ مِنْهُمُ الْحَجَّ، فَقَالُوا: أَتَكْتُبِينَ إِلَى أَهْلِكِ؟ فَكَتَبَتْ مَعَهُمْ، فَرَجَعُوا إِلَى الْمَدِينَةِ قَالَتْ: فَصَدَّقُونِي وَازْدَدْتُ عَلَيْهِمْ كَرَامَةً، قَالَتْ: فَلَمَّا حَلَلْتُ جَاءَنِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَخَطَبَنِي فَقُلْتُ لَهُ: مَا مِثْلِي نُكِحَ. أَمَّا أَنَا فَلَا وَلَدَ لِي وَأَنَا غَيُورٌ ذَاتُ عِيَالٍ، قَالَ: أَنَا أَكْبَرُ مِنْكِ، وَأَمَّا الْغَيْرَةُ فَيُذْهِبُهَا اللَّهُ، وَأَمَّا الْعِيَالُ فَإِلَى اللَّهِ وَرَسُولِهِ، فَتَزَوَّجَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَجَعَلَ يَأْتِيهَا وَيَقُولُ: "أَيْنَ زُنَابُ" ؟ حَتَّى جَاءَ عَمَّارُ بْنُ يَاسِرٍ [ ص: 27 ] فَاخْتَلَجَهَا، وَقَالَ: هَذِهِ تَمْنَعُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَكَانَتْ تُرْضِعُهَا فَجَاءَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ: "أَيْنَ زُنَابُ" ؟ فَقَالَتْ قُرَيْبَةُ بِنْتُ أَبِي أُمَيَّةَ وَوَافَقَهَا عِنْدَهَا: أَخَذَهَا عَمَّارُ بْنُ يَاسِرٍ. فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: "إِنِّي آتِيكُمُ اللَّيْلَةَ" . قَالَتْ: فَقُمْتُ فَوَضَعْتُ ثِفَالِي وَأَخْرَجْتُ حَبَّاتٍ مِنْ شَعِيرٍ كَانَتْ فِي جَرٍّ وَأَخْرَجْتُ شَحْمًا فَعَصَدْتُهُ أَوْ عَصَرْتُهُ، قَالَتْ: فَبَاتَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَأَصْبَحَ فَقَالَ حِينَ أَصْبَحَ: "إِنَّ لَكِ عَلَى أَهْلِكِ كَرَامَةً، فَإِنْ شِئْتِ سَبَّعْتُ لَكِ، وَإِنْ أُسَبِّعْ أُسَبِّعْ لِنِسَائِي" .
Abu Bakr bin Abdur Rahman bin Harith bin Hisham narrates from Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) that she said: When she came to Madinah, she informed the people of Madinah that she was the daughter of Abu Umayyah bin Mughirah, but they did not believe her and said: "How many lies strangers tell." Until one of them went for Hajj, and he said: Do you want to write a message for your family? She wrote a message and gave it to him. When he returned to Madinah, he confirmed her identity and began to honor her even more than before. She says: When I became lawful (my waiting period ended), the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) came to me and proposed marriage to me. I said to him: Who would marry someone like me? I will not have (more) children, and I am jealous and have children. He (ﷺ) said: "I am older than you, as for jealousy, Allah will remove it, and children are for Allah and His Messenger (ﷺ)." Then the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) married her, and when he (ﷺ) would come to her, he would say: "Where is Zunab?" Until Ammar bin Yasir (may Allah be pleased with him) came and quickly snatched him (the child) from the lap of Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) and said: He is keeping the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) away, while she (Umm Salamah) was breastfeeding him. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) came and said: "Where is Zunab?" Qareebah bint Abu Umayyah, who was present at that time, said: Ammar bin Yasir (may Allah be pleased with him) has taken him. Then the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: "I will come to you at night." Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) says: I got up and spread the leather mat that is placed under the millstone, and took out barley grains from the jar, then took out fat and squeezed it over them (prepared a dish). She says: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) spent the night and stayed until morning. When morning came, he (ﷺ) said: "Indeed, you have honor among your family, if you wish, I will appoint seven days for you, and if I appoint seven days, I will also appoint seven for my other wives."
Hadith 1106
أَخْبَرَنَا مَالِكٌ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ حَزْمٍ، عَنْ [ ص: 28 ] عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ: أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حِينَ تَزَوَّجَ أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ وَأَصْبَحَتْ عِنْدَهُ قَالَ لَهَا: "لَيْسَ بِكِ عَلَى أَهْلِكِ هَوَانٌ، إِنْ شِئْتِ سَبَّعْتُ عِنْدَكِ، وَسَبَّعْتُ عِنْدَهُنَّ، وَإِنْ شِئْتِ ثَلَّثْتُ عِنْدَكِ وَدُرْتُ" . قَالَتْ: ثَلِّثْ.
It is narrated from Abdul Malik bin Abu Bakr bin Abdur Rahman that when the Messenger of Allah ﷺ married Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her), and morning came at her place, he ﷺ said to her: "Because of you, there will be no disgrace upon your family. If you wish, I will stay with you for seven days, and seven days with them, and if you wish, I will stay with you for three days, then I will assign turns." Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: "You may stay for three days."
Hadith 1107
أَخْبَرَنَا مَالِكٌ، عَنْ حُمَيْدٍ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ أَنَّهُ قَالَ: لِلْبِكْرِ سَبْعٌ، وَلِلثَّيِّبِ ثَلَاثٌ.
It is narrated from Anas (may Allah be pleased with him), he said: For a virgin, there are seven days (for the husband to spend the nights with her after marriage), and in the case of marrying a widow, there are three days.
Hadith 1108
أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي رَوَّادٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ، عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ خَطَبَهَا فَسَاقَ نِكَاحَهَا وَبِنَاءَهُ بِهَا وَقَوْلَهُ لَهَا: "إِنْ شِئْتِ سَبَّعْتُ عِنْدَكِ وَسَبَّعْتُ عِنْدَهُنَّ" . أَخْرَجَ الثَّلَاثَةَ الْأَحَادِيثَ مِنْ كِتَابِ الْخُلْعِ وَالنُّشُوزِ، وَالرَّابِعَ مِنْ كِتَابِ أَحْكَامِ الْقُرْآنِ.
It is narrated from Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) proposed to her, then mentioned his marriage and spending the night with her, and also mentioned what he said to Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her): "If you wish, I will stay with you for seven days, and likewise with them (the other wives) for seven days."
