It is narrated about Sayyiduna Abu Darda’ (may Allah be pleased with him): A man came to him and said: My father is commanding me to divorce my wife. So Sayyiduna Abu Darda’ (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) say: “The father is the middle gate of Paradise. (It is up to you) whether you waste it or protect it.” The narrator named Sufyan sometimes narrated these words: My mother has commanded me this, and sometimes he narrated these words: My mother (the narrator is in doubt, perhaps these are the words) or my father has commanded me this.
Hadith Referenceمسند الحميدي / 399
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:إسناده صحيح
Hadith Takhrij«إسناده صحيح : أخرجه ابن حبان فى «صحيحه» برقم: 425، والحاكم فى «مستدركه» ، برقم: 2815،7344،7345، والترمذي فى «جامعه» برقم: 1900، وابن ماجه فى «سننه» برقم: 2089، برقم: 3663، وأحمد فى «مسنده» ، برقم: 22131»