Hadith 358
358 - حَدَّثَنَا الْحُمَيْدِيُّ قَالَ: ثنا سُفْيَانُ قَالَ: ثنا يَحْيَي بْنُ سَعِيدٍ قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي بُشَيْرُ بْنُ يَسَارٍ، عَنْ حُصَيْنِ بْنِ مِحْصَنٍ، عَنْ عَمَّةٍ لَهُ قَالَتْ: أَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّي اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي بَعْضِ الْحَاجَةِ فَقَالَ «يَا هَذِهِ أَذَاتُ بَعْلٍ أَنْتِ؟» قُلْتُ: نَعَمْ قَالَ «فَأَيْنَ أَنْتِ مِنْهُ؟» قَالَتْ: فَقُلْتُ: مَا آلُو إِلَّا مَا عَجَزْتُ عَنْهُ؟ قَالَ «فَأَيْنَ أَنْتِ مِنْهُ؟ فَإِنَّهُ جَنَّتُكِ وَنَارُكِ»
Husayn bin Mihsan narrates from his paternal aunt: I came to the service of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) regarding some matter, so the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: "O woman! Are you married?" I replied: Yes. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: "Then why are you neglectful of your husband?" The woman says: I submitted: I am only guilty of such shortcomings regarding him as I am unable to avoid. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: "Why do you not take care of him? He is your Paradise and he is your Hell."