579 - حَدَّثَنَا الْحُمَيْدِيُّ قَالَ: ثنا سُفْيَانُ قَالَ: ثنا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ: سَمِعْتُ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ زَمْعَةَ بْنِ الْأَسْوَدِ يَقُولُ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّي اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَذْكُرُ الَّذِي عَقَرَ النَّاقَةَ فَقَالَ: «انْتُدِبَ لَهَا رَجُلٌ ذُو عِزٍّ وَمَنَعَةٍ فِي قَوْمِهِ كَأَبِي زَمْعَةَ»¤ثُمَّ ذَكَرَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّي اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ النِّسَاءَ فَقَالَ: «يَعْمِدُ أَحَدُكُمْ إِلَي امْرَأَتِهِ فَيَضْرِبَهَا ضَرْبَ الْعَبْدِ ثُمَّ يُعَانِقُهَا مِنْ آخِرِ النَّهَارِ»¤وَعَاتَبَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّي اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي ضَحِكِهِمْ مِنَ الضَّرْطَةِ فَقَالَ: «وَلِمَ يَضْحَكُ أَحَدُكُمْ مِمَّا يَفْعَلُ»
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Zam’ah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I heard the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). He (peace be upon him) mentioned the person who (cut the legs of the she-camel of Prophet Yunus, peace be upon him). He (peace be upon him) said: “A man advanced for this who was prominent among his people, just as Abu Zam’ah is.” Then the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), mentioning women, said: “One of you goes to his wife and beats her as a slave is beaten. Then, at the end of the day, he embraces her.” The narrator states: The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) also expressed displeasure at people laughing when someone passes wind, and said: “A person laughs at an act which he himself does.”
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