Sayyiduna Hakim bin Hizam (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates: I asked the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) for something and he gave it to me. I asked him again and he gave it to me. I asked him again and he gave it to me. I asked him again and he gave it to me. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This wealth is lush and sweet. Whoever receives it with contentment of heart, there is blessing in it for him. And whoever receives it with greed, there is no blessing in it for him, and he is like the one who eats but is never satisfied. And the upper hand is better than the lower hand."
Hadith Referenceمسند الحميدي / 563
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:إسناده صحيح
Hadith Takhrij«إسناده صحيح وأخرجه البخاري فى «صحيحه» برقم: 1427، 1472، 2750، 3143، 6441، ومسلم فى «صحيحه» برقم: 1034، 1035، وابن حبان فى «صحيحه» برقم: 3220، 3402، 3406، والحاكم فى «مستدركه» برقم: 2142، 6099، 6102، والنسائي فى «المجتبیٰ» برقم: 2530، والنسائي فى «الكبریٰ» برقم: 2322، والترمذي فى «جامعه» برقم: 2463، والدارمي فى «مسنده» برقم: 1690، 1693، 2792، والبيهقي فى«سننه الكبير» برقم: 7846، وأحمد فى «مسنده» ، برقم: 15551»
Benefit: From this hadith, evidence is found of the great generosity of the Noble Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, that he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would not turn anyone away empty-handed. Also, in this hadith, the blameworthiness of greed for wealth is mentioned; a person should not be greedy. The "upper hand" refers to the one who spends (gives), and the "lower hand" refers to the one who asks without reason and without any valid Shar‘i excuse.
Source: Musnad al-Humaydi: Commentary by Muhammad Ibrahim bin Bashir, Page: 563
´'Urwah bin Az-Zubair and Ibn Musayyab narrated that Hakim bin Hizam said:` "I (once) asked the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) (for something) and he gave it to me. Then I asked him (again) and he gave it to me. Then I asked him (again) and he gave it to me. Then I asked him (again), so he gave it to me. Then he said: 'O Hakim! Indeed this wealth is green and sweet, so whoever takes it without asking for it, he will be blessed in it. And whoever takes it, insisting upon it, he will not be blessed in it. He is like the one who eats but does not get satisfied and contended. And the upper hand (giving) is better than the lower hand (receiving)." So Hakim said: "I said: 'O Messenger of Allah! By the One who sent you with the Truth! I shall not ask anyone for anything after you until I depart the world.'"So Abu Bakr used to call Hakim to give him something, but he refused to accept it. Then 'Umar called him to give to him, but he refused to accept it. So 'Umar said: "O you Muslims! I would like you to bear witness that I presented Hakim with his due of these spoils of war but he refused to accept it." So Hakim never asked anyone of the people for anything after the Messenger of Allah, until he died.
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
Explanation: 1: Hakim bin Hizam radi Allahu anhu feared that if he began to accept what was given to him by people, this habit might exceed the limit to which he had no desire to reach. For this reason, he even refused that which was his rightful due. This is a lofty example of indifference towards the world (zuhd). Umar radi Allahu anhu made people witnesses so that no one could later say that Umar radi Allahu anhu was unaware of the reality behind Hakim radi Allahu anhu’s refusal. (And Allah knows best)
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 2463