244 - حَدَّثَنَا الْحُمَيْدِيُّ قَالَ: ثنا سُفْيَانُ قَالَ: ثنا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ أَنَّ هِنْدَ بِنْتَ عُتْبَةَ أَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّي اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَلَيْسَ لِي مِنْهُ إِلَّا مَا أُدْخِلَ بَيْتِي، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّي اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَوَلَدَكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»
Mother of the Believers, Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: Hind bint Utbah came to the service of the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). She said: O Messenger of Allah! Abu Sufyan is a miserly man; I only get from him what he brings home, but I need more expenses. So the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Take from him what is sufficient for you and your children in a reasonable manner."
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