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مسند الحميدي
Musnad Humaydi
Hadiths of Aisha, Mother of the Believers (may Allah be pleased with her), from the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him)
Hadith Number 229
Hadith 229
اُردوEn
229 - حَدَّثَنَا الْحُمَيْدِيُّ قَالَ: ثنا سُفْيَانُ قَالَ: ثنا الزُّهْرِيُّ قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي عُرْوَةُ بْنُ الزُّبَيْرِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ أَنَّهَا حَدَّثَتْهُ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّي اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ: «لَا يَحِلُّ لِامْرَأَةٍ تُؤْمِنُ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ أَنْ تُحِدَّ عَلَي مَيِّتٍ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثَةِ أَيَّامٍ إِلَّا عَلَي زَوْجٍ» فَقِيلَ لِسُفْيَانَ: فَإِنَّهَا تُحِدُّ عَلَيْهِ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا، فَقَالَ سُفْيَانُ لَمْ يَقُلْ لَنَا هَذَا الزُّهْرِيُّ فِي حَدِيثِهِ، إِنَّمَا قَالَهُ لَنَا أَيُّوبُ بْنُ مُوسَي فِي حَدِيثِهِ
Umm al-Mu’minin Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates: The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “It is not permissible for any woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to mourn for any deceased person for more than three days, except in the case of her husband, for whom the ruling is different.” Sufyan was asked: Should the woman mourn for her husband for four months and ten days? Sufyan said: Al-Zuhri did not mention these words in his narration before us; these words were mentioned before us in the narration of Ayyub bin Musa.
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Muhammad Ibrahim bin Basheer
Benefit:
In this hadith, it is stated that when a man passes away, his close female relatives may observe mourning (sog) for three days; that is, for three days they will not wear colorful clothes and will spend these days in simplicity. It is incorrect for some people to restrict mourning to men; mourning pertains only to women. If a woman's husband passes away, then she will observe mourning for four months and ten days.
In this hadith, it is stated that when a man passes away, his close female relatives may observe mourning (sog) for three days; that is, for three days they will not wear colorful clothes and will spend these days in simplicity. It is incorrect for some people to restrict mourning to men; mourning pertains only to women. If a woman's husband passes away, then she will observe mourning for four months and ten days.
Source: Musnad al-Humaydi: Commentary by Muhammad Ibrahim bin Bashir, Page: 229
