مسند احمد
Musnad Ahmad
مسند المكثرين من الصحابةMusnad of the Prolific Narrators Among the Companions
مسنَد عَبدِ اللَّهِ بنِ عمَرَ بنِ الخَطَّابِ رَضِیَ اللَّه تَعَالَى عَنهمَاMusnad of Abdullah ibn Umar ibn al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with them)
Hadith 5720
اُردوEn
(حديث مرفوع) حَدَّثَنَا يُونُسُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا لَيْثٌ ، عَنْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ أَبِي حَبِيبٍ ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ صَالِحٍ ، وَاسْمُهُ الَّذِي يعرف به نعيم بن النحام ، وكان رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ سَمَّاهُ صَالِحًا ، أَخْبَرَهُ : أَنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ عُمَرَ , قَالَ لِعُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ : اخْطُبْ عَلَيَّ ابْنَةَ صَالِحٍ , فَقَالَ : إِنَّ لَهُ يَتَامَى ، وَلَمْ يَكُنْ لِيُؤْثِرَنَا عَلَيْهِمْ ، فَانْطَلَقَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ إِلَى عَمِّهِ زَيْدِ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ لِيَخْطُبَ ، فَانْطَلَقَ زَيْدٌ إِلَى صَالِحٍ ، فَقَالَ : إِنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ عُمَرَ أَرْسَلَنِي إِلَيْكَ يَخْطُبُ ابْنَتَكَ ، فَقَالَ : لِي يَتَامَى ، وَلَمْ أَكُنْ لِأُتْرِبَ لَحْمِي , وَأَرْفَعَ لَحْمَكُمْ ، أُشْهِدُكُمْ أَنِّي قَدْ أَنْكَحْتُهَا فُلَانًا , وَكَانَ هَوَى أُمِّهَا إِلَى عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ ، فَأَتَتْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَتْ : يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ ، خَطَبَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عُمَرَ ابْنَتِي ، فَأَنْكَحَهَا أَبُوهَا يَتِيمًا فِي حَجْرِهِ ، وَلَمْ يُؤَامِرْهَا ، فَأَرْسَلَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِلَى صَالِحٍ ، فَقَالَ : " أَنْكَحْتَ ابْنَتَكَ وَلَمْ تُؤَامِرْهَا ؟ " , فَقَالَ : نَعَمْ ، فَقَالَ : " أَشِيرُوا عَلَى النِّسَاءِ فِي أَنْفُسِهِنَّ " ، وَهِيَ بِكْرٌ ، فَقَالَ صَالِحٌ : فَإِنَّمَا فَعَلْتُ هَذَا لِمَا يُصْدِقُهَا ابْنُ عُمَرَ ، فَإِنَّ لَهُ فِي مَالِي مِثْلَ مَا أَعْطَاهَا .
Nuaim bin Nahham (may Allah be pleased with him), "whom the Prophet (peace be upon him) gave the title of Salih," says that Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) requested his father to send a marriage proposal for him to the daughter of Salih. Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "She has orphaned nephews; they will not prefer us over them." Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) then went to his uncle Zaid bin Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) and asked him to send the marriage proposal as well. So Zaid (may Allah be pleased with him) himself went to Salih (may Allah be pleased with him) and said, "Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) has sent me to you with a marriage proposal for your daughter." Salih (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "My orphaned nephews are present; I cannot lower my own flesh and raise yours. I make you a witness that I have married this girl to such-and-such person." The girl's mother wanted to marry her to Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both). She went to the Prophet (peace be upon him) and said, "O Messenger of Allah! Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) had asked for my daughter's hand, but her father married her to his orphaned nephew under his care and did not even consult me." The Prophet (peace be upon him) called Salih and said, "Did you arrange your daughter's marriage without consulting your wife?" He replied, "Yes, that is what happened." The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "Consult women regarding themselves, even if they are virgins." Salih (may Allah be pleased with him) said, "I did this only because the dowry that Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) would give her, I already have that much of his wealth with me (I am indebted to him, so I did not wish to give my daughter in marriage to him in this situation)."
