Hadith 2849

(حديث مرفوع) حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو كَامِلٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ ، عَنْ عَمَّارِ بْنِ أَبِى عَمَّارٍ ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ فِيمَا يَحْسَبُ حَمَّادٌ أَنّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ " ذَكَرَ خَدِيجَةَ ، وَكَانَ أَبُوهَا يَرْغَبُ أَنْ يُزَوِّجَهُ ، فَصَنَعَتْ طَعَامًا وَشَرَابًا ، فَدَعَتْ أَبَاهَا وَزُمَرًا مِنْ قُرَيْشٍ ، فَطَعِمُوا وَشَرِبُوا حَتَّى ثَمِلُوا ، فَقَالَتْ خَدِيجَةُ لِأَبِيهَا : إِنَّ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ يَخْطُبُنِي ، فَزَوِّجْنِي إِيَّاهُ . فَزَوَّجَهَا إِيَّاهُ فَخَلَعَتْهُ وَأَلْبَسَتْهُ حُلَّةً ، وَكَذَلِكَ كَانُوا يَفْعَلُونَ بِالْآبَاءِ ، فَلَمَّا سُرِّيَ عَنْهُ سُكْرُهُ ، نَظَرَ فَإِذَا هُوَ مُخَلَّقٌ وَعَلَيْهِ حُلَّةٌ ، فَقَالَ : مَا شَأْنِي ، مَا هَذَا ؟ قَالَتْ : زَوَّجْتَنِي مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ . قَالَ : أَنَا أُزَوِّجُ يَتِيمَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ ! لَا ، لَعَمْرِي . فَقَالَتْ خَدِيجَةُ : أَمَا تَسْتَحِي ! تُرِيدُ أَنْ تُسَفِّهَ نَفْسَكَ عِنْدَ قُرَيْشٍ ، تُخْبِرُ النَّاسَ أَنَّكَ كُنْتَ سَكْرَانَ ، فَلَمْ تَزَلْ بِهِ حَتَّى رَضِيَ " .
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) that once the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) mentioned Sayyidah Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her): "In fact, the father of Sayyidah Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) wanted to marry her off. Sayyidah Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) arranged a feast and, according to the custom of that time, also arranged for wine. She invited her father and some people from the Quraysh to this feast. They ate and drank and became intoxicated with wine. Seeing this, Sayyidah Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to her father that Muhammad bin Abdullah has sent me a marriage proposal, so you should marry me to him. He performed the marriage. After that, Sayyidah Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) applied a perfume called khuluq to her father and dressed him in a cloak, which was customary at that time. When the intoxication of Sayyidah Khadijah's (may Allah be pleased with her) father wore off, he saw that perfume called khuluq was applied to his body and he was wearing a cloak. Seeing this, he said, 'What is all this?' Sayyidah Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) replied, 'You yourself have married me to Muhammad bin Abdullah.' He said, 'Shall I marry you to the orphan nephew of Abu Talib? By my life! This cannot happen.' Sayyidah Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her) said, 'Will you not be ashamed to make yourself look foolish in the eyes of the Quraysh and to tell people that you were intoxicated?' And she kept explaining this to him until he agreed."
Hadith Reference مسند احمد / ومن مسند بني هاشم / 2849
Hadith Grading حکم دارالسلام: إسناده ضعيف، فقد شك حماد بن سلمة فى وصله ، ثم إن حماد بن سلمة قد دلسه