مسند احمد
Musnad Ahmad
من مسند القبائلFrom the Musnad of the Tribes
مِنْ حَدِيثِ أَسْمَاءَ ابْنَةِ يَزِيدَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَاFrom the Hadith of Asma' bint Yazid (may Allah be pleased with her)
Hadith 27589
اُردوEn
حَدَّثَنَا هَاشِمٌ ، قَالَ : حدثَنَا عَبْدُ الْحَمِيدِ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنِي شَهْرٌ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتَ يَزِيدَ الْأَنْصَارِيَّةَ ، تُحَدِّثُ ، زَعَمَتْ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَرَّ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ يَوْمًا ، وَعُصْبَةٌ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ قُعُودٌ ، فَأَلْوَى بِيَدِهِ إِلَيْهِنَّ بِالسَّلَامِ ، قَالَ : " إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَانَ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ ، إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَانَ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ " ، قَالَتْ إِحْدَاهُنَّ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ مِنْ كُفْرَانِ اللَّهِ ، قَالَ : " بَلَى ، إِنَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَطُولُ أَيْمَتُهَا ، وَيَطُولُ تَعْنِيسُهَا ، ثُمَّ يُزَوِّجُهَا اللَّهُ الْبَعْلَ ، وَيُفِيدُهَا الْوَلَدَ ، وَقُرَّةَ الْعَيْنِ ، ثُمَّ تَغْضَبُ الْغَضْبَةَ ، فَتُقْسِمُ بِاللَّهِ مَا رَأَتْ مِنْهُ سَاعَةَ خَيْرٍ قَطُّ ، فَذَلِكَ مِنْ كُفْرَانِ نِعَمِ اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ ، وَذَلِكَ مِنْ كُفْرَانِ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ " .
Hazrat Asma bint Yazid (may Allah be pleased with her), who belonged to Banu Abdul-Ashhal, says that once the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) passed by us while we were with some women. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) greeted us with salam and said: "Protect yourselves from being ungrateful to those who do good to you." We asked: O Messenger of Allah! What is meant by being ungrateful to those who do good? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It may be that one of you stays at her parents' home for a long time waiting for a proposal, then Allah grants her a husband and also grants her wealth and property through him, and then one day, in anger, she says: 'I have never seen any good from you.'"
