حَدَّثَنَا
سُفْيَانُ , عَنِ
ابْنِ أَبِي حُسَيْنٍ , سَمِعَ
شَهْرًا , يَقُولُ : سَمِعْتُ
أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتَ يَزِيدَ إِحْدَى نِسَاءِ بَنِي عَبْدِ الْأَشْهَلِ , تَقُولُ : مَرَّ بِنَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَنَحْنُ فِي نِسْوَةٍ , فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْنَا , وَقَالَ : " إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ " , فَقُلْنَا : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ , وَمَا كُفْرُ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ ؟ قَالَ :
" لَعَلَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ أَنْ تَطُولَ أَيْمَتُهَا بَيْنَ أَبَوَيْهَا وَتَعْنُسَ , فَيَرْزُقَهَا اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ زَوْجًا , وَيَرْزُقَهَا مِنْهُ مَالًا وَوَلَدًا , فَتَغْضَبَ الْغَضْبَةَ , فَرَاحَتْ تَقُولُ : مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْهُ يَوْمًا خَيْرًا قَطُّ " , وَقَالَ مَرَّةً : " خَيْرًا قَطُّ " .
Hazrat Asma bint Yazid (may Allah be pleased with her), who belonged to Banu Abdul-Ashhal, says that once the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) passed by us while we were with some women. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) greeted us with salam and said: "Protect yourselves from being ungrateful to those who do good to you." We asked: O Messenger of Allah! What is meant by being ungrateful to those who do good? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It may be that one of you stays at her parents' home for a long time waiting for a proposal, then Allah grants her a husband and gives her wealth and property through him, and then one day, in anger, she says: 'I have never seen any good from you.'"