مسند احمد
Musnad Ahmad
من مسند القبائلFrom the Musnad of the Tribes
وَمِنْ حَدِيثِ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ أُخْتِ الضَّحَّاكِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَاAnd from the hadith of Fatimah bint Qays, the sister of al-Dahhak ibn Qays (may Allah be pleased with her)
Hadith 27336
اُردوEn
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ , أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ , قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي عَطَاءٌ , قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ عَاصِمِ بْنِ ثَابِتٍ , أَنَّ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتَ قَيْسٍ أُخْتَ الضَّحَّاكِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ أَخْبَرَتْهُ , وَكَانَتْ عِنْدَ رَجُلٍ مِنْ بَنِي مَخْزُومٍ , فَأَخْبَرَتْهُ أَنَّهُ طَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثًا , وَخَرَجَ إِلَى بَعْضِ الْمَغَازِي , وَأَمَرَ وَكِيلًا لَهُ أَنْ يُعْطِيَهَا بَعْضَ النَّفَقَةِ , فَاسْتَقَلَّتْهَا , وَانْطَلَقَتْ إِلَى إِحْدَى نِسَاءِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , فَدَخَلَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , وَهِيَ عِنْدَهَا , فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ , هَذِهِ فَاطِمَةُ بِنْتُ قَيْسٍ , طَلَّقَهَا فُلَانٌ , فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْهَا بِبَعْضِ النَّفَقَةِ فَرَدَّتْهَا , وَزَعَمَ أَنَّهُ شَيْءٌ تَطَوَّلَ بِهِ , قَالَ : " صَدَقَ " , فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " انْتَقِلِي إِلَى مَنْزِلِ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ , وقَالَ أَبِي : وَقَالَ الْخَفَّافُ : أُمِّ كُلْثُومٍ , فَاعْتَدِّي عِنْدَهَا " , ثُمَّ قَالَ : " لَا , أُمُّ كُلْثُومٍ يَكْثُرُ عُوَّادُهَا , وَلَكِنْ : انْتَقِلِي إِلَى عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ , فَإِنَّهُ أَعْمَى " , فَانْتَقَلَتْ إِلَى عَبْدِ اللَّهِ , فَاعْتَدَّتْ عِنْدَهُ , حَتَّى انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتُهَا , ثُمَّ خَطَبَهَا أَبُو جَهْمٍ وَمُعَاوِيَةُ بْنُ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ , فَجَاءَتْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ تَسْتَأْمِرُهُ فِيهِمَا , فَقَالَ : " أَبُو جَهْمٍ , أَخَافُ عَلَيْكِ قَسْقَاسَتَهُ لِلْعَصَا , وقَالَ الخفَافُ : قَصْقَاصَتَهُ لِلْعَصَا , وَأَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ , فَرَجُلٌ أَخْلَقُ مِنَ الْمَالِ " , فَتَزَوَّجَتْ أُسَامَةَ بْنَ زَيْدٍ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ .
It is narrated from Hazrat Fatimah bint Qais (may Allah be pleased with her) that my husband Abu Amr bin Hafs bin Mughirah one day sent me a message of divorce and sent five saa’ of barley with his agent. I said, “I have nothing to spend and can I spend my ‘iddah in your house?” He said, “No.” Hearing this, I gathered my clothes and then presented myself before the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and mentioned the whole incident. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked, “How many divorces did he give you?” I replied, “Three divorces.” The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “He has spoken the truth, you will not receive any maintenance and you should spend your ‘iddah in the house of your paternal cousin Ibn Umm Maktum, because his eyesight is very weak. You may even remove your headscarf in front of him. When your ‘iddah is over, inform me.” After the ‘iddah, several people sent me proposals of marriage, among whom were Hazrat Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) and Abu Jahm (may Allah be pleased with him). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “Muawiyah is poor and has no wealth, while Abu Jahm beats women (he is harsh in nature). However, you should marry Usamah bin Zaid.” So she did as he said.
