مسند احمد
Musnad Ahmad
من مسند القبائلFrom the Musnad of the Tribes
وَمِنْ حَدِيثِ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ أُخْتِ الضَّحَّاكِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَاAnd from the hadith of Fatimah bint Qays, the sister of al-Dahhak ibn Qays (may Allah be pleased with her)
Hadith 27333
اُردوEn
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ , قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو , عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ , عَنْ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ , قَالَ : كَتَبْتُ ذَاكَ مِنْ فِيهَا كِتَابًا , قَالَتْ : كُنْتُ عِنْدَ رَجُلٍ مِنْ بَنِي مَخْزُومٍ فَطَلَّقَنِي الْبَتَّةَ , فَأَرْسَلْتُ إِلَى أَهْلِهِ أَبْتَغِي النَّفَقَةَ , فَقَالُوا : لَيْسَ لَكِ عَلَيْنَا نَفَقَةٌ , فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " لَيْسَ لَكِ عَلَيْهِمْ نَفَقَةٌ , وَعَلَيْكِ الْعِدَّةُ , انْتَقِلِي إِلَى أُمِّ شَرِيكٍ , وَلَا تَفُوتِينِي بِنَفْسِكِ " , ثُمَّ قَالَ : " إِنَّ أُمَّ شَرِيكٍ يَدْخُلُ عَلَيْهَا إِخْوَتُهَا مِنَ الْمُهَاجِرِينَ الْأُوَلِ , انْتَقِلِي إِلَى ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ , فَإِنَّهُ رَجُلٌ قَدْ ذَهَبَ بَصَرُهُ , فَإِنْ وَضَعْتِ مِنْ ثِيَابِكِ شَيْئًا , لَمْ يَرَ شَيْئًا " , قَالَتْ : فَلَمَّا حَلَلْتُ , خَطَبَنِي مُعَاوِيَةُ وَأَبُو جَهْمِ بْنُ حُذَيْفَةَ , فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ , فَعَائِلٌ لَا مَالَ لَهُ , وَأَمَّا أَبُو جَهْمٍ , فَإِنَّهُ رَجُلٌ لَا يَضَعُ عَصَاهُ عَنْ عَاتِقِهِ , أَيْنَ أَنْتُمْ مِنْ أُسَامَةَ بْنِ زَيْدٍ " , وَكَانَ أَهْلُهَا كَرِهُوا ذَلِكَ , قَالَتْ : لَا أَنْكِحُ إِلَّا الَّذِي دَعَانِي إِلَيْهِ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , فَنَكَحَتْهُ .
It is narrated from Hazrat Fatimah bint Qais (may Allah be pleased with her) that my husband Abu Amr bin Hafs bin Mughirah one day sent me a message of divorce and along with it sent five saa’ of barley. I said: I have nothing else for my expenses except this, and can I spend my ‘iddah in your house? He said: No. Hearing this, I gathered my clothes and then presented myself before the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and mentioned the whole incident. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: “How many divorces did he give you?” I replied: Three divorces. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “He has spoken the truth, you will not receive any maintenance and you should spend your ‘iddah in the house of your paternal cousin Ibn Umm Maktum, because his eyesight is very weak, you may even remove your headscarf in front of him. When your ‘iddah is over, inform me.” After the ‘iddah, several people sent me proposals of marriage, among them were Hazrat Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) and Abu Jahm (may Allah be pleased with him). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Muawiyah is poor and has no wealth, while Abu Jahm beats women (he is harsh in nature), but you should marry Usamah bin Zaid.”
