مسند احمد
Musnad Ahmad
مسند النساءMusnad of the Women
حَدِيثُ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَHadith of Umm Salamah, wife of the Prophet (peace be upon him)
Hadith 26669
اُردوEn
حَدَّثَنَا عَفَّانُ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ ، حَدَّثَنَا ثَابِتٌ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنِي ابْنُ عُمَرَ بْنِ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ بِمِنًى ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، أَنَّ أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ ، قَالَتْ : قَالَ : أَبُو سَلَمَةَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " إِذَا أَصَابَ أَحَدَكُمْ مُصِيبَةٌ ، فَلْيَقُلْ إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ ، عِنْدَكَ احْتَسَبْتُ مُصِيبَتِي وَأْجُرْنِي فِيهَا ، وَأَبْدِلْنِي مَا هُوَ خَيْرٌ مِنْهَا " , فَلَمَّا احْتُضِرَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ ، قَالَ : اللَّهُمَّ اخْلُفْنِي فِي أَهْلِي بِخَيْرٍ ، فَلَمَّا قُبِضَ ، قُلْتُ : إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ ، اللَّهُمَّ عِنْدَكَ أَحْتَسِبُ مُصِيبَتِي ، فَأْجُرْنِي فِيهَا , قَالَتْ : وَأَرَدْتُ أَنْ أَقُولَ : وَأَبْدِلْنِي خَيْرًا مِنْهَا ، فَقُلْتُ : وَمَنْ خَيْرٌ مِنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ ، فَمَا زِلْتُ حَتَّى قُلْتُهَا ، فَلَمَّا انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتُهَا خَطَبَهَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ فَرَدَّتْهُ ، ثُمَّ خَطَبَهَا عُمَرُ فَرَدَّتْهُ ، فَبَعَثَ إِلَيْهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَتْ : مَرْحَبًا بِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، وَبِرَسُولِهِ ، أَخْبِرْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنِّي امْرَأَةٌ غَيْرَى ، وَأَنِّي مُصْبِيَةٌ ، وَأَنَّهُ لَيْسَ أَحَدٌ مِنْ أَوْلِيَائِي شَاهِدًا ، فَبَعَثَ إِلَيْهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أَمَّا قَوْلُكِ : إِنِّي مُصْبِيَةٌ ، فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ سَيَكْفِيكِ صِبْيَانَكِ ، وَأَمَّا قَوْلُكِ : إِنِّي غَيْرَى ، فَسَأَدْعُو اللَّهَ أَنْ يُذْهِبَ غَيْرَتَكِ ، وَأَمَّا الْأَوْلِيَاءُ : فَلَيْسَ أَحَدٌ مِنْهُمْ شَاهِدٌ وَلَا غَائِبٌ إِلَّا سَيَرْضَانِي " , قُلْتُ : يَا عُمَرُ ، قُمْ فَزَوِّجْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أَمَا إِنِّي لَا أَنْقُصُكِ شَيْئًا مِمَّا أَعْطَيْتُ أُخْتَكِ فُلَانَةَ رَحَيَيْنِ وَجَرَّتَيْنِ ، وَوِسَادَةً مِنْ أَدَمٍ ، حَشْوُهَا لِيفٌ " . قَالَ : وَكَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَأْتِيهَا ، فَإِذَا جَاءَ أَخَذَتْ زَيْنَبَ ، فَوَضَعَتْهَا فِي حِجْرِهَا لِتُرْضِعَهَا ، وَكَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حَيِيًّا كَرِيمًا ، يَسْتَحْيِي ، فَرَجَعَ ، فَفَعَلَ ذَلِكَ مِرَارًا ، فَفَطِنَ عَمَّارُ بْنُ يَاسِرٍ لِمَا تَصْنَعُ ، فَأَقْبَلَ ذَاتَ يَوْمٍ وَجَاءَ عَمَّارٌ ، وَكَانَ أَخَاهَا لِأُمِّهَا ، فَدَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا ، فَانْتَشَطَهَا مِنْ حِجْرِهَا ، وَقَالَ : دَعِي هَذِهِ الْمَقْبُوحَةَ الْمَشْقُوحَةَ الَّتِي آذَيْتِ بِهَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , قَالَ : وَجَاءَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَدَخَلَ ، فَجَعَلَ يُقَلِّبُ بَصَرَهُ فِي الْبَيْتِ , وَيَقُولُ : " أَيْنَ زَنَابُ ؟ مَا فَعَلَتْ زَنَابُ ؟ " , قَالَتْ : جَاءَ عَمَّارٌ ، فَذَهَبَ بِهَا ، قَالَ : فَبَنَى بِأَهْلِهِ ، ثُمَّ قَالَ : " إِنْ شِئْتِ أَنْ أُسَبِّعَ لَكِ ، سَبَّعْتُ لِلنِّسَاءِ " .
It is narrated from Hazrat Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) through Abu Salamah that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: When any of you is afflicted by a calamity, he should say "Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un" and then say: "O Allah, I seek reward from You for this calamity, so grant me reward for it and grant me a better substitute for it." When Abu Salamah fell ill with his fatal illness, I prayed: "O Allah, decide good for my husband." When he passed away, I recited the aforementioned supplication, and when I wanted to say, "Grant me a better substitute for him," the thought came to my mind: Who could be better than Abu Salamah? But still, I kept saying it. When my waiting period ('iddah) ended, Hazrat Abu Bakr and Hazrat Umar sent marriage proposals one after the other, but I rejected them. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sent me a marriage proposal. I said, "O Messenger of Allah, none of my guardians are present here." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "None of your guardians, whether absent or present, will dislike it." She said to her son, Umar bin Abi Salamah, "You arrange my marriage with the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)." So he gave Hazrat Umm Salamah in marriage to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to her, "Whatever I have given to your sisters (my wives), I will not give you less than that: two millstones, a water-skin, and a leather pillow stuffed with palm fiber." After that, whenever the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) would come to her for privacy, as soon as she saw him, she would take her daughter Zainab and seat her in her lap, and eventually the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) would leave as he came. When Hazrat Ammar bin Yasir, who was Hazrat Umm Salamah's foster brother, learned of this, he came to Hazrat Umm Salamah and said, "Where is that dirty girl through whom you have been causing the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) distress?" and he took her away with him. This time, when the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came and entered the house, he looked around all four corners of the room and then asked about the girl, "Where is Zanab (Zainab)?" She replied, "Hazrat Ammar came and took her with him." Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) had privacy with her and said, "If you wish, I will spend seven days with you, but then I will also spend seven days with each of my other wives."
