Hadith 26363

حَدَّثَنَا يَعْقُوبُ , قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا أَبِي , عَنِ ابْنِ إِسْحَاقَ , قَالَ : حَدَّثَنِي عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ الْقَاسِمِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ , عَنْ عَائِشَةَ زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , قَالَتْ : لَمَّا أَتَى قَتْلُ جَعْفَرٍ , عَرَفْنَا فِي رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ الْحُزْنَ , قَالَتْ : فَدَخَلَ عَلَيْهِ رَجُلٌ , فَقَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ , إِنَّ النِّسَاءَ قَدْ غَلَبْنَنَا وَفَتَنَّنَا , قَالَ : " فَارْجِعْ إِلَيْهِنَّ فَأَسْكِتْهُنَّ " , قَالَ : فَذَهَبَ , ثُمَّ رَجَعَ , فَقَالَ لَهُ : مِثْلَ ذَلِكَ , قَالَ : يَقُولُ : وَرُبَّمَا ضَرَّ التَّكَلُّفُ أَهْلَهُ , قَالَ : " فَاذْهَبْ فَأَسْكِتْهُنَّ , فَإِنْ أَبْيَنَ , فَاحْثُ فِي أَفْوَاهِهِنَّ التُّرَابَ " , قَالَتْ : قُلْتُ فِي نَفْسِي : أَبْعَدَكَ اللَّهُ , فَوَاللَّهِ مَا تَرَكْتَ نَفْسَكَ , وَمَا أَنْتَ بِمُطِيعٍ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , قَالَتْ : عَرَفْتُ أَنَّهُ لَا يَقْدِرُ عَلَى أَنْ يَحْثُوَ فِي أَفْوَاهِهِنَّ التُّرَابَ .
Narrated from Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) that when the news of the martyrdom of Hazrat Zaid bin Harithah and Abdur Rahman bin Rawahah (may Allah be pleased with them) came, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sat down on the ground and signs of grief were visible on his blessed face. I was peeking through a hole in the door when a man came and said, "O Messenger of Allah! The women of Ja'far are weeping." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to him, "Forbid them." The man went and after a short while returned and said, "I have forbidden them but they do not listen to me." This happened three times. Finally, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to him, "Go and fill their mouths with dust." Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said to him, "May Allah fill you with dust! By Allah, you neither do what the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) commands you nor do you leave them alone."
Hadith Reference مسند احمد / مسند النساء / 26363
Hadith Grading حکم دارالسلام: حديث صحيح، وهذا إسناد حسن من أجل محمد ابن إسحاق، خ: 1299، م: 935