Hadith 26271

حَدَّثَنَا كَثِيرُ بْنُ هِشَامٍ , قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا جَعْفَرٌ , قَالَ : سَأَلْتُ الزُّهْرِيَّ عَنِ الرَّجُلِ يُخَيِّرُ امْرَأَتَهُ , فَتَخْتَارُهُ , قَالَ : حَدَّثَنِي عُرْوَةُ بْنُ الزُّبَيْرِ , عَنْ عَائِشَةَ , قَالَتْ : أَتَانِي نَبِيُّ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ : " إِنِّي سَأَعْرِضُ عَلَيْكِ أَمْرًا , فَلَا عَلَيْكِ أَنْ لَا تَعْجَلِي حَتَّى تُشَاوِرِي أَبَوَيْكِ " فَقُلْتُ : وَمَا هَذَا الْأَمْرُ ؟ قَالَتْ : فَتَلَا عَلَيَّ يَأَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ قُلْ لأَزْوَاجِكَ إِنْ كُنْتُنَّ تُرِدْنَ الْحَيَاةَ الدُّنْيَا وَزِينَتَهَا فَتَعَالَيْنَ أُمَتِّعْكُنَّ وَأُسَرِّحْكُنَّ سَرَاحًا جَمِيلا وَإِنْ كُنْتُنَّ تُرِدْنَ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ وَالدَّارَ الآخِرَةَ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ أَعَدَّ لِلْمُحْسِنَاتِ مِنْكُنَّ أَجْرًا عَظِيمًا سورة الأحزاب آية 28 - 29 قَالَتْ : فَقُلْتُ : وَفِي أَيِّ ذَلِكَ تَأْمُرُنِي أَنْ أُشَاوِرَ أَبَوَيَّ ؟ بَلْ أُرِيدُ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ وَالدَّارَ الْآخِرَةَ , قَالَتْ : فَسُرَّ بِذَلِكَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَأَعْجَبَهُ , وَقَالَ : " سَأَعْرِضُ عَلَى صَوَاحِبِكِ مَا عَرَضْتُ عَلَيْكِ " , فَكَانَ يَقُولُ لَهُنَّ كَمَا قَالَ لِعَائِشَةَ , ثُمَّ يَقُولُ : " قَدْ اخْتَارَتْ عَائِشَةُ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ وَالدَّارَ الْآخِرَةَ " , قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ فَقَدْ خَيَّرَنَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَلَمْ نَرَ ذَلِكَ طَلَاقًا .
Narrated from Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) that when the verse of choice (Ayat Takhyir) was revealed, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) first called me and said, "O Aisha! I want to mention something before you; do not make any decision in this matter without consulting your parents." I asked, "What is this matter?" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) called me and recited this verse: "O Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)! Say to your wives: If you desire Allah and His Messenger and the home of the Hereafter, etc." I said, "Will I consult my parents about this? I choose Allah and His Messenger." Upon this, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) became happy and said, "I will present the same matter before your companions as well," and the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) would also inform them of Hazrat Aisha's (may Allah be pleased with her) answer, that Aisha has chosen Allah, His Messenger, and the home of the Hereafter. Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) says that the option the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) gave us, we did not consider it as a divorce.
Hadith Reference مسند احمد / مسند النساء / 26271
Hadith Grading حکم دارالسلام: حديث صحيح، جعفر بن برقان ضعيف فى الزهري ولكن توبع