حَدَّثَنَا حَدَّثَنَا عَبْد الله ، قَالَ : قَرَأْتُ عَلَى أَبِي هَذَا الْحَدِيثَ فَأَقَرَّ بِهِ ، حَدَّثَنِي
مَهْدِيُّ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ الرَّمْلِيُّ ، حَدَّثَنِي
ضَمْرَةُ ، عَنْ
أَبِي زُرْعَةَ السَّيْبَانِيِّ ، عَنْ
قَنْبَرٍ حَاجِبِ مُعَاوِيَةَ ، قَالَ : كَانَ
أَبُو ذَرٍّ يُغَلِّظُ لِمُعَاوِيَةَ ، قَالَ : فَشَكَاهُ إِلَى عُبَادَةَ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ ، وَإِلَى أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ ، وَإِلَى عَمْرِو بْنِ الْعَاصِ ، وَإِلَى أُمِّ حَرَامٍ ، فَقَالَ :
" إِنَّكُمْ قَدْ صَحِبْتُمْ كَمَا صَحِبَ ، وَرَأَيْتُمْ كَمَا رَأَى ، فَإِنْ رَأَيْتُمْ أَنْ تُكَلِّمُوهُ ، ثُمَّ أَرْسَلَ إِلَى أَبِي ذَرٍّ فَجَاءَ فَكَلَّمُوهُ ، فَقَالَ : أَمَّا أَنْتَ يَا أَبَا الْوَلِيدِ ، فَقَدْ أَسْلَمْتَ قَبْلِي ، وَلَكَ السِّنُّ وَالْفَضْلُ عَلَيَّ ، وَقَدْ كُنْتُ أَرْغَبُ بِكَ عَنْ مِثْلِ هَذَا الْمَجْلِسِ ، وَأَمَّا أَنْتَ يَا أبا الدَّرْدَاءِ ، فَإِنْ كَادَتْ وَفَاةُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنْ تَفُوتَكَ ، ثُمَّ أَسْلَمْتَ ، فَكُنْتَ مِنْ صَالِحِي الْمُسْلِمِينَ ، وَأَمَّا أَنْتَ يَا عَمْرُو بْنَ الْعَاصِ ، فَقَدْ جَاهَدْتَ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، وَأَمَّا أَنْتِ يَا أُمَّ حَرَامٍ ، فَإِنَّمَا أَنْتِ امْرَأَةٌ ، وَعَقْلُكِ عَقْلُ امْرَأَةٍ ، وَأَمَّا أَنْتَ وَذَاكَ ؟ ! قَالَ : فَقَالَ : عُبَادَةُ لَا جَرَمَ لَا جَلَسْتُ مِثْلَ هَذَا الْمَجْلِسِ أَبَدًا " .
Hazrat Abu Dharr (may Allah be pleased with him) used to speak harshly to Hazrat Amir Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him), about which Hazrat Amir Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) complained in the presence of Hazrat Ubadah bin Samit (may Allah be pleased with him), Abu Darda (may Allah be pleased with him), Amr bin Aas (may Allah be pleased with him), and Hazrat Umm Haram (may Allah be pleased with her), and said: Just as he has had the companionship of the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), you people have also had this honor, and just as he has seen the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), you have also seen him. If you people consider it appropriate, then speak to him. They called Hazrat Abu Dharr (may Allah be pleased with him). When he arrived, the mentioned individuals spoke with him. He said: O Abu al-Waleed! You accepted Islam before me, you are greater than me in age and virtue, I encourage you to avoid such gatherings. And O Abu Darda! You accepted Islam when the time of the Noble Prophet’s (peace and blessings be upon him) passing was near, you are a good Muslim. And O Amr bin Aas! I have performed jihad with you alongside the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). And O Umm Haram! You are a woman, and your intellect is also that of a woman, do not get involved in this matter. Hazrat Ubadah (may Allah be pleased with him), seeing this situation, said: It is settled that from today onwards, I will not sit in such gatherings.