مسند احمد
Musnad Ahmad
أول مسند البصريينFirst Part of Musnad of the Basrans
حَدِيثُ بَهْزِ بْنِ حَكِيمٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ جَدِّهِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ تَعَالَى عَنْهُمَاHadith of Bahz ibn Hakim from his father from his grandfather (may Allah be pleased with them)
Hadith 20030
اُردوEn
حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ ، أَخْبَرَنَا بَهْزُ بْنُ حَكِيمٍ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ ، قَالَ : قُلْتُ : يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ ، نِسَاؤُنَا مَا نَأْتِي مِنْهَا وَمَا نَذَرُ ؟ قَالَ : " حَرْثُكَ ، ائْتِ حَرْثَكَ أَنَّى شِئْتَ ، غَيْرَ أَنْ لَا تَضْرِبَ الْوَجْهَ ، وَلَا تُقَبِّحْ ، وَلَا تَهْجُرْ إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ ، وَأَطْعِمْ إِذَا طَعِمْتَ ، وَاكْسُ إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ ، كَيْفَ وَقَدْ أَفْضَى بَعْضُكُمْ إِلَى بَعْضٍ إِلَّا بِمَا حَلَّ عَلَيْهَا " .
It is narrated from Hazrat Muawiyah Bahzi (may Allah be pleased with him) that I submitted in the court of Prophethood, "O Messenger of Allah! In which part of our women may we approach them and which part should we leave?" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Your wife is your field; come to your field from wherever you wish. However, when you eat, feed her as well; when you dress, clothe her as well. Do not strike her on the face, do not abuse her, and if you separate from her, do so only within the house. How is it appropriate when you approach each other in a lawful manner?"
