Hadith 20022

حَدَّثَنَا عَفَّانُ ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ ، أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو قَزَعَةَ الْبَاهِلِيُّ ، عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، قَالَ : أَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , فَقُلْتُ : مَا أَتَيْتُكَ حَتَّى حَلَفْتُ عَدَدَ أَصَابِعِي هَذِهِ أَنْ لَا آتِيَكَ أَرَانَا عَفَّانُ وَطَبَّقَ كَفَّيْهِ ، فَبِالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ ، مَا الَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِهِ ؟ قَالَ : " الْإِسْلَامُ " قَالَ : وَمَا الْإِسْلَامُ ؟ قَالَ : " أَنْ يُسْلِمَ قَلْبُكَ لِلَّهِ ، وَأَنْ تُوَجِّهَ وَجْهَكَ إِلَى اللَّهِ ، وَتُصَلِّيَ الصَّلَاةَ الْمَكْتُوبَةَ ، وَتُؤَدِّيَ الزَّكَاةَ الْمَفْرُوضَةَ ، أَخَوَانِ نَصِيرَانِ ، لَا يَقْبَلُ اللَّهَُّ مِنْ أَحَدٍ تَوْبَةً أَشْرَكَ بَعْدَ إِسْلَامِهِ " . قُلْتُ : مَا حَقُّ زَوْجَةِ أَحَدِنَا عَلَيْهِ ؟ قَالَ : " تُطْعِمُهَا إِذَا طَعِمْتَ ، وَتَكْسُوهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ ، وَلَا تَضْرِبْ الْوَجْهَ ، وَلَا تُقَبِّحْ ، وَلَا تَهْجُرْ إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ " . قَالَ : " تُحْشَرُونَ هَاهُنَا وَأَوْمَأَ بِيَدِهِ إِلَى نَحْوِ الشَّامِ , مُشَاةً وَرُكْبَانًا وَعَلَى وُجُوهِكُمْ ، تُعْرَضُونَ عَلَى اللَّهِ تَعَالَى وَعَلَى أَفْوَاهِكُمْ الْفِدَامُ ، وَأَوَّلُ مَا يُعْرِبُ عَنْ أَحَدِكُمْ فَخِذُهُ " . .
It is narrated from Hazrat Muawiyah Bahzi (may Allah be pleased with him) that he said to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): I had sworn so many times (opening the fingers of his hands he indicated the number) that I would not come to you, but now I have come, so tell me, with what has Allah sent you? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Allah has sent me with Islam. He asked: What is Islam? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: To bear witness that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) is His servant and Messenger, and to establish prayer and pay zakat. These two things are supportive, and Allah does not accept the repentance of a person who, after accepting Islam, falls back into polytheism. I asked: O Messenger of Allah! What is the right of our wife upon us? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: When you eat, feed her; when you wear clothes, clothe her as well; do not strike her on the face; do not abuse her; and if you separate from her, do so only within the house. Then he said: All of you will be gathered here (he pointed towards Syria), some of you will be mounted, some on foot, and some on their faces. On the Day of Resurrection, when you are presented, a seal will be set upon your mouths, and the first thing to speak will be the thigh. And the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: If a person’s cousin asks him for an extra share of his wealth and he does not give it, then before the judgment on the Day of Resurrection, he will be turned into a bald snake that will keep biting him. It is narrated from Hazrat Muawiyah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: In earlier times there was a man whom Allah had blessed with abundant wealth and children. Time passed, one era went and another came. When his death approached, he said to his children: O my children! What kind of father have I been to you? They said: The best father. He said: Will you obey me in one thing? They said: Yes. He said: Look, when I die, burn me in fire and keep me in the fire until I become coal, then crush that coal in a mortar (he indicated with his hand), then on a windy day, scatter my ashes in the sea. Perhaps in this way I will not meet Allah. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: By Allah! They did exactly that, but at that very moment he was in Allah’s grasp. Allah asked him: O son of Adam! What made you do this? He said: My Lord! Your fear. Allah, due to the blessing of that fear, forgave him.
Hadith Reference مسند احمد / أول مسند البصريين / 20022
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