Hadith 19784

حَدَّثَنَا عَفَّانُ ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ ، عَنْ ثَابِتٍ ، عَنْ كِنَانَةَ بْنِ نُعَيْمٍ الْعَدَوِيِّ ، عَنْ أَبِي بَرْزَةَ الْأَسْلَمِيِّ , أَنَّ جُلَيْبِيبًا كَانَ امْرَأً يَدْخُلُ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ , قَالَ : وَكَانَتْ الْأَنْصَارُ إِذَا كَانَ لِأَحَدِهِمْ أَيِّمٌ ، لَمْ يُزَوِّجْهَا حَتَّى يَعْلَمَ , هَلْ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِيهَا حَاجَةٌ أَمْ لَا ؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لِرَجُلٍ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ : " زَوِّجْنِي ابْنَتَكَ " فَقَالَ : نِعِمَّ وَكَرَامَةٌ , يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، وَنُعْمَ عَيْنِي , قَالَ : " إِنِّي لَسْتُ أُرِيدُهَا لِنَفْسِي " , قَالَ : فَلِمَنْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ؟ قَالَ : " لِجُلَيْبِيبٍ " , قَالَ : فَقَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، أُشَاوِرُ أُمَّهَا , فَأَتَى أُمَّهَا ، فَقَالَ : رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَخْطُبُ ابْنَتَكِ , فَقَالَتْ : نِعِمَّ وَنُعْمَةُ عَيْنِي , فَقَالَ : إِنَّهُ لَيْسَ يَخْطُبُهَا لِنَفْسِهِ ، إِنَّمَا يَخْطُبُهَا لِجُلَيْبِيبٍ , فَقَالَتْ : أَجُلَيْبِيبٌ ابنه ؟ أَجُلَيْبِيبٌ ابنه ؟ أَجُلَيْبِيبٌ ابنه ؟ لَا لَعَمْرُ اللَّهِ ، لَا نُزَوَّجُهُ , فَلَمَّا أَرَادَ أَنْ يَقُومَ لِيَأْتِيَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فيُخْبِرَهُ بِمَا قَالَتْ أُمُّهَا ، قَالَتْ الْجَارِيَةُ : مَنْ خَطَبَنِي إِلَيْكُمْ ؟ فَأَخْبَرَتْهَا أُمُّهَا , فَقَالَتْ : أَتَرُدُّونَ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَمْرَهُ ، ادْفَعُونِي ، فَإِنَّهُ لَمْ يُضَيِّعْنِي , فَانْطَلَقَ أَبُوهَا إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَأَخْبَرَهُ ، فقَالَ : " شَأْنَكَ بِهَا " , فَزَوَّجَهَا جُلَيْبِيبًا . قَالَ : فَخَرَجَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي غَزْوَةٍ لَهُ ، قَالَ : فَلَمَّا أَفَاءَ اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ ، قَالَ لِأَصْحَابِهِ : " هَلْ تَفْقِدُونَ مِنْ أَحَدٍ ؟ " قَالُوا : نَفْقِدُ فُلَانًا ، وَنَفْقِدُ فُلَانًا , قَالَ : " انْظُرُوا هَلْ تَفْقِدُونَ مِنْ أَحَدٍ ؟ " قَالُوا : لَا , قَالَ : " لَكِنِّي أَفْقِدُ جُلَيْبِيبًا " قَالَ : " فَاطْلُبُوهُ فِي الْقَتْلَى " , قَالَ : فَطَلَبُوهُ ، فَوَجَدُوهُ إِلَى جَنْبِ سَبْعَةٍ قَدْ قَتَلَهُمْ ، ثُمَّ قَتَلُوهُ ، فَقَالُوا : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، هَا هُوَ ذَا إِلَى جَنْبِ سَبْعَةٍ قَدْ قَتَلَهُمْ ، ثُمَّ قَتَلُوهُ ، فَأَتَاهُ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَامَ عَلَيْهِ ، فَقَالَ : " قَتَلَ سَبْعَةً وَقَتَلُوهُ ، هَذَا مِنِّي وَأَنَا مِنْهُ ، هَذَا مِنِّي وَأَنَا مِنْهُ " مَرَّتَيْنِ أَوْ ثَلَاثًا ، ثُمَّ وَضَعَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَلَى سَاعِدَيْهِ ، وَحُفِرَ لَهُ ، مَا لَهُ سَرِيرٌ إِلَّا سَاعِدَا رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، ثُمَّ وَضَعَهُ فِي قَبْرِهِ , وَلَمْ يُذْكَرْ أَنَّهُ غَسَّلَهُ . قَالَ ثَابِتٌ : فَمَا كَانَ فِي الْأَنْصَارِ أَيِّمٌ أَنْفَقَ مِنْهَا , وَحَدَّثَ إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي طَلْحَةَ , ثَابِتًا ، قَالَ : هَلْ تَعْلَمْ مَا دَعَا لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ؟ قَالَ : " اللَّهُمَّ صُبَّ عَلَيْهَا الْخَيْرَ صَبًّا ، وَلَا تَجْعَلْ عَيْشَهَا كَدًّا كَدًّا " , قَالَ : فَمَا كَانَ فِي الْأَنْصَارِ أَيِّمٌ أَنْفَقَ مِنْهَا , قَالَ أَبُو عَبْد الرَّحْمَنِ : مَا حَدَّثَ بِهِ فِي الدُّنْيَا أَحَدٌ إِلَّا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ ، مَا أَحْسَنَهُ مِنْ حَدِيثٍ !.
It is narrated from Hazrat Abu Barzah Aslami (may Allah be pleased with him) that Julaibib used to pass by women and entertain them. I told my wife that Julaibib should not come to you; if he comes, I will do such and such. It was the custom of the Ansar that they would not marry off any widow until they had informed the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), to see if the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) had any need for her. So the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to an Ansari man, "Marry your daughter to me." He said, "What an honor, O Messenger of Allah! Very well." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "I am not asking for her for myself." He asked, "O Messenger of Allah! Then for whom?" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "For Julaibib." He said, "O Messenger of Allah! Let me consult the girl's mother." So he went to her mother and said, "The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is not proposing for himself, but for Julaibib." She immediately refused, saying, "By God! Not at all. Did the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) not find anyone other than Julaibib? We have already refused such and such proposals." Meanwhile, the girl was listening from behind her veil. After mutual consultation, when the man was about to go and inform the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), the girl said, "Will you reject the word of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)? If the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is pleased with this, then marry me." With this, she opened her parents' eyes, and they said, "You are right." So her father went to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said, "If you are pleased with this marriage, then we are also pleased." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "I am pleased." So the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) married the girl to Julaibib. Not long after, there was an attack on the people of Madinah. Julaibib also went out mounted. When the battle was over, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked the people, "Do you find anyone missing?" The people said, "O Messenger of Allah! Such and such people are missing." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "But I find Julaibib missing. Look for him." The people searched for him and found him among seven men. Hazrat Julaibib (may Allah be pleased with him) had killed all seven, and then he himself was martyred. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came and stood by him and said, "He killed seven men, and then the polytheists martyred him. He is of me and I am of him." He repeated this phrase two or three times. Then, when he was lifted before the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) lifted him with his own arms, and until the burial, the Prophet's two arms served as his funeral bier. The narrator did not mention the washing (ghusl).
Hadith Reference مسند احمد / أول مسند البصريين / 19784
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