حَدَّثَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبَّادٍ الْمَكِّيُّ ، حَدَّثَنَا
أَبُو سَعِيدٍ مَوْلَى بَنِي هَاشِمٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا
عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ ، عَنْ
أُمِّ بَكْرٍ ،
وَجَعْفَرٍ ، عَنْ
عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي رَافِعٍ ، عَنِ
الْمِسْوَرِ ، قَالَ : بَعَثَ حَسَنُ بْنُ حَسَنٍ إِلَى الْمِسْوَرِ يَخْطُبُ بِنْتًا لَهُ ، قَالَ لَهُ : تُوَافِينِي فِي الْعَتَمَةِ ، فَلَقِيَهُ ، فَحَمِدَ اللَّهَ الْمِسْوَرُ ، فَقَالَ : مَا مِنْ سَبَبٍ ولَا نَسَبٍ وَلَا صِهْرٍ أَحَبُّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ نَسَبِكُمْ وَصِهْرِكُمْ ، وَلَكِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ :
" فَاطِمَةُ شُجْنَةٌ مِنِّي يَبْسُطُنِي مَا بَسَطَهَا ، وَيَقْبِضُنِي مَا قَبَضَهَا ، وَإِنَّهُ يَنْقَطِعُ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ الْأَنْسَابُ وَالْأَسْبَابُ إِلَّا نَسَبِي وَسَبَبِي " . وَتَحْتَكَ ابْنَتُهَا ، وَلَوْ زَوَّجْتُكَ قَبَضَهَا ذَلِكَ ، فَذَهَبَ عَاذِرًا لَهُ .
It is narrated from Hazrat Miswar (may Allah be pleased with him) that once Hasan bin Hasan (may Allah have mercy on him) sent a marriage proposal to him for his daughter. He said to the messenger, "Tell Hasan to meet me after 'Isha." When they met, Miswar (may Allah be pleased with him) praised Allah and, after saying 'Amma Ba'd', said: "By Allah! There is no lineage and family relationship more beloved to me than yours, but the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: 'Fatimah is a part of me; whatever distresses her distresses me, and whatever pleases her pleases me. And on the Day of Judgment, all lineages and relationships will end except my lineage and family ties.' You already have the daughter of Hazrat Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) in your marriage. If I marry my daughter to you, the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) will be distressed." Hearing this, Hasan accepted his excuse and returned.