مسند احمد
Musnad Ahmad
مسند المدنيين رضي الله عنهم اجمعينMusnad of the Madinans
حَدِیث رَبِیعَةَ بنِ كَعب الاَسلَمِیِّHadith of Rabi'ah ibn Ka'b al-Aslami
Hadith 16577
اُردوEn
(حديث مرفوع) حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو النَّضْرِ هَاشِمُ بْنُ الْقَاسِمِ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا الْمُبَارَكُ يَعْنِي ابْنَ فَضَالَةَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عِمْرَانَ الْجَوْنِيُّ ، عَنْ رَبِيعَةَ الْأَسْلَمِيِّ ، قَالَ : كُنْتُ أَخْدُمُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ لي : " يَا رَبِيعَةُ ، أَلَا تَزَوَّجُ ؟ " ، قَالَ : قُلْتُ : وَاللَّهِ لا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، مَا أُرِيدُ أَنْ أَتَزَوَّجَ ، مَا عِنْدِي مَا يُقِيمُ الْمَرْأَةَ ، وَمَا أُحِبُّ أَنْ يَشْغَلَنِي عَنْكَ شَيْءٌ ، فَأَعْرَضَ عَنِّي ، فَخَدَمْتُهُ مَا خَدَمْتُهُ ، ثُمَّ قَالَ لِي الثَّانِيَةَ : " يَا رَبِيعَةُ ، أَلَا تَزَوَّجُ ؟ " ، فَقُلْتُ : مَا أُرِيدُ أَنْ أَتَزَوَّجَ ، مَا عِنْدِي مَا يُقِيمُ الْمَرْأَةَ ، وَمَا أُحِبُّ أَنْ يَشْغَلَنِي عَنْكَ شَيْءٌ ، فَأَعْرَضَ عَنِّي ، ثُمَّ رَجَعْتُ إِلَى نَفْسِي ، فَقُلْتُ : وَاللَّهِ لَرَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِمَا يُصْلِحُنِي فِي الدُّنْيَا وَالْآخِرَةِ أَعْلَمُ مِنِّي ، وَاللَّهِ لَئِنْ ، قَالَ : تَزَوَّجْ ، لَأَقُولَنَّ : نَعَمْ ، يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، مُرْنِي بِمَا شِئْتَ ، قَالَ : فَقَالَ : " يَا رَبِيعَةُ ، أَلَا تَزَوَّجُ ؟ " ، فَقُلْتُ : بَلَى ، مُرْنِي بِمَا شِئْتَ ، قَالَ : " انْطَلِقْ إِلَى آلِ فُلَانٍ " حَيٍّ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ ، وَكَانَ فِيهِمْ تَرَاخٍي عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " فَقُلْ لَهُمْ : إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَرْسَلَنِي إِلَيْكُمْ يَأْمُرُكُمْ أَنْ تُزَوِّجُونِي فُلَانَةَ " لِامْرَأَةٍ مِنْهُمْ ، فَذَهَبْتُ ، فَقُلْتُ لَهُمْ : إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَرْسَلَنِي إِلَيْكُمْ يَأْمُرُكُمْ أَنْ تُزَوِّجُونِي فُلَانَةَ ، فَقَالُوا : مَرْحَبًا بِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ ، وَبِرَسُولِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، وَاللَّهِ لَا يَرْجِعُ رَسُولُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِلَّا بِحَاجَتِهِ فَزَوَّجُونِي وَأَلْطَفُونِي ، وَمَا سَأَلُونِي الْبَيِّنَةَ ، فَرَجَعْتُ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حَزِينًا ، فَقَالَ لِي : " مَا لَكَ يَا رَبِيعَةُ ؟ " ، فَقُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، أَتَيْتُ قَوْمًا كِرَامًا ، فَزَوَّجُونِي وَأَكْرَمُونِي وَأَلْطَفُونِي ، وَمَا سَأَلُونِي بَيِّنَةً ، وَلَيْسَ عِنْدِي صَدَاقٌ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " يَا بُرَيْدَةُ الْأَسْلَمِيَّ ، اجْمَعُوا لَهُ وَزْنَ نَوَاةٍ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ " ، قَالَ : فَجَمَعُوا لِي وَزْنَ نَوَاةٍ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ ، فَأَخَذْتُ مَا جَمَعُوا لِي ، فَأَتَيْتُ بِهِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : " اذْهَبْ بِهَذَا إِلَيْهِمْ ، فَقُلْ : هَذَا صَدَاقُهَا " ، فَأَتَيْتُهُمْ ، فَقُلْتُ : هَذَا صَدَاقُهَا ، فَرَضُوهُ وَقَبِلُوهُ ، وَقَالُوا : كَثِيرٌ طَيِّبٌ ، قَالَ : ثُمَّ رَجَعْتُ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حَزِينًا ، فَقَالَ : " يَا رَبِيعَةُ ، مَا لَكَ حَزِينًا " ، فَقُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، مَا رَأَيْتُ قَوْمًا أَكْرَمَ مِنْهُمْ ، رَضُوا بِمَا آتَيْتُهُمْ وَأَحْسَنُوا ، وَقَالُوا : كَثِيرًا طَيِّبًا وَلَيْسَ عِنْدِي مَا أُولِمُ ، قَالَ : " يَا بُرَيْدَةُ ، اجْمَعُوا لَهُ شَاةً " ، قَالَ : فَجَمَعُوا لِي كَبْشًا عَظِيمًا سَمِينًا ، فَقَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " اذْهَبْ إِلَى عَائِشَةَ فَقُلْ لَهَا فَلْتَبْعَثْ بِالْمِكْتَلِ الَّذِي فِيهِ الطَّعَامُ " ، قَالَ : فَأَتَيْتُهَا ، فَقُلْتُ لَهَا مَا أَمَرَنِي بِهِ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَتْ : هَذَا الْمِكْتَلُ فِيهِ تِسْعُ آصُعِ شَعِيرٍ ، لَا وَاللَّهِ إِنْ أَصْبَحَ لَنَا طَعَامٌ غَيْرُهُ ، خُذْهُ ، فَأَخَذْتُهُ ، فَأَتَيْتُ بِهِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، وَأَخْبَرْتُهُ مَا قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ ، فَقَالَ : " اذْهَبْ بِهَذَا إِلَيْهِمْ ، فَقُلْ : لِيُصْبِحْ هَذَا عِنْدَكُمْ خُبْزًا " فَذَهَبْتُ إِلَيْهِمْ ، وَذَهَبْتُ بِالْكَبْشِ ، وَمَعِي أُنَاسٌ مِنْ أَسْلَمَ ، فَقَالَ : لِيُصْبِحْ هَذَا عِنْدَكُمْ خُبْزًا وَهَذَا طَبِيخًا ، فَقَالُوا : أَمَّا الْخُبْزُ فَسَنَكْفِيكُمُوهُ ، وَأَمَّا الْكَبْشُ فَاكْفُونَا أَنْتُمْ ، فَأَخَذْنَا الْكَبْشَ أَنَا وَأُنَاسٌ مِنْ أَسْلَمَ ، فَذَبَحْنَاهُ ، وَسَلَخْنَاهُ ، وَطَبَخْنَاهُ ، فَأَصْبَحَ عِنْدَنَا خُبْزٌ وَلَحْمٌ ، فَأَوْلَمْتُ وَدَعَوْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، ثُمَّ قَالَ : إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَعْطَانِي بعد ذلك أَرْضًا ، وَأَعْطَانِي أَبُو بَكْرٍ أَرْضًا وَجَاءَتْ الدُّنْيَا ، فَاخْتَلَفْنَا فِي عِذْقِ نَخْلَةٍ ، فَقُلْتُ : أَنَا هِيَ فِي حَدِّي ، وَقَالَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ : هِيَ فِي حَدِّي ، فَكَانَ بَيْنِي وَبَيْنَ أَبِي بَكْرٍ كَلَامٌ ، فَقَالَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ : كَلِمَةً كَرِهَهَا وَنَدِمَ ، فَقَالَ لِي : يَا رَبِيعَةُ ، رُدَّ عَلَيَّ مِثْلَهَا حَتَّى تَكُونَ قِصَاصًا ، قَالَ : قُلْتُ : لَا أَفْعَلُ ، فَقَالَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ : لَتَقُولَنَّ أَوْ لَأَسْتَعْدِيَنَّ عَلَيْكَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقُلْتُ : مَا أَنَا بِفَاعِلٍ ، قَالَ : وَرَفَضَ الْأَرْضَ ، وَانْطَلَقَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، وَانْطَلَقْتُ أَتْلُوهُ ، فَجَاءَ نَاسٌ مِنْ أَسْلَمَ ، فَقَالُوا لِي : رَحِمَ اللَّهُ أَبَا بَكْرٍ ، فِي أَيِّ شَيْءٍ يَسْتَعْدِي عَلَيْكَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، وَهُوَ قَالَ لَكَ مَا قَالَ ؟ ، فَقُلْتُ : أَتَدْرُونَ مَا هَذَا ؟ هَذَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ الصِّدِّيقُ ، هَذَا ثَانِيَ اثْنَيْنِ ، وَهَذَا ذُو شَيْبَةِ الْمُسْلِمِينَ ، إِيَّاكُمْ لَا يَلْتَفِتْ فَيَرَاكُمْ تَنْصُرُونِي عَلَيْهِ فَيَغْضَبَ ، فَيَأْتِيَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَيَغْضَبَ لِغَضَبِهِ ، فَيَغْضَبَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ لِغَضَبِهِمَا ، فَيُهْلِكَ رَبِيعَةَ ، قَالُوا : مَا تَأْمُرُنَا ؟ ، قَالَ : ارْجِعُوا ، قَالَ : فَانْطَلَقَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَتَبِعْتُهُ وَحْدِي حَتَّى أَتَى النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَحَدَّثَهُ الْحَدِيثَ كَمَا كَانَ ، فَرَفَعَ إِلَيَّ رَأْسَهُ ، فَقَالَ : " يَا رَبِيعَةُ ، مَا لَكَ وَلِلصِّدِّيقِ ؟ " ، قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، كَانَ كَذَا كَانَ كَذَا ، قَالَ لِي : كَلِمَةً كَرِهَهَا ، فَقَالَ لِي : قُلْ كَمَا قُلْتُ حَتَّى يَكُونَ قِصَاصًا ، فَأَبَيْتُ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أَجَلْ ، فَلَا تَرُدَّ عَلَيْهِ ، وَلَكِنْ قُلْ غَفَرَ اللَّهُ لَكَ يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ " ، فَقُلْتُ : غَفَرَ اللَّهُ لَكَ يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ ، قَالَ الْحَسَنُ : فَوَلَّى أَبُو بَكْرٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ وَهُوَ يَبْكِي .
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Rabi’ah Aslami (may Allah be pleased with him) that I used to serve the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). One day, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to me: “Rabi’ah! Why don’t you get married?” I replied: “O Messenger of Allah! By Allah, I do not wish to get married because, firstly, I do not have enough to fulfill a woman’s needs, and secondly, I do not like anything that would keep me away from you.” Upon hearing this, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) turned away from me, and I continued to serve him. After some time, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) again said to me: “Rabi’ah! Why don’t you get married?” I gave the same answer as before, but then I began to think in my heart that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) knows better than I do what is good for me in this world and the Hereafter. So, if the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) says it again, I will say, ‘Alright, O Messenger of Allah! Command me as you wish.’
So, when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to me for the third time, “Rabi’ah, why don’t you get married?” I replied: “Why not! Please command me as you wish.” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) mentioned the name of a tribe of the Ansar with whom he had a connection and said: “Go to them and say that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has sent me to you and has commanded that you marry me to such-and-such woman.” So I went to them and conveyed the message of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). They welcomed me and said: “The Messenger of Allah’s envoy will not leave without completing his task.” So they married me to that woman and treated me with great kindness, not even asking me for witnesses.
After returning from there, I came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) feeling sad. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked: “Rabi’ah! What happened to you?” I replied: “O Messenger of Allah! I went to a noble people, they married me, honored me, treated me kindly, and did not even ask me for witnesses. (To give a woman of such noble people) I do not even have a dowry.” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to Sayyiduna Buraydah: “O Buraydah Aslami! Collect gold equal to the weight of a date stone for him.” They collected it, and I brought it to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Take this gold to those people and tell them that this is the dowry for the girl.” So I went to them and said: “This is her dowry.” They accepted it gladly and said: “It is plenty and pure (lawful).”
A little while later, I again returned to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) feeling sad. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked: “Rabi’ah! Why are you sad now?” I replied: “O Messenger of Allah! I have never seen people more noble than them. Whatever I gave them, they were pleased with it and praised it, saying it is plenty and pure (lawful). I have nothing to serve as a wedding feast (walimah) for such people.” So the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) again said to Sayyiduna Buraydah: “Bring a goat for him.” So he brought a very healthy and large ram. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to me: “Go to Aisha and tell her to give the bag in which the grain is kept.” So I went to her and conveyed the message of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). She said: “Here is the bag; it contains nine sa’ of barley, and by Allah! We have nothing else besides this. Take it.” So I took the bag and came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and conveyed Aisha’s message. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Take these two things to those people and tell them to make bread from it.” So I went to them and took the ram with me. Some people from the tribe of Aslam were with me. When I reached there, I told them: “Make bread from this flour and cook the meat of this ram.” They said: “We will take care of the bread, and you take care of the ram.” So I and my companions caught the ram, slaughtered it, skinned it, and began to cook it. In this way, the bread and...
So, when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to me for the third time, “Rabi’ah, why don’t you get married?” I replied: “Why not! Please command me as you wish.” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) mentioned the name of a tribe of the Ansar with whom he had a connection and said: “Go to them and say that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has sent me to you and has commanded that you marry me to such-and-such woman.” So I went to them and conveyed the message of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). They welcomed me and said: “The Messenger of Allah’s envoy will not leave without completing his task.” So they married me to that woman and treated me with great kindness, not even asking me for witnesses.
After returning from there, I came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) feeling sad. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked: “Rabi’ah! What happened to you?” I replied: “O Messenger of Allah! I went to a noble people, they married me, honored me, treated me kindly, and did not even ask me for witnesses. (To give a woman of such noble people) I do not even have a dowry.” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to Sayyiduna Buraydah: “O Buraydah Aslami! Collect gold equal to the weight of a date stone for him.” They collected it, and I brought it to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Take this gold to those people and tell them that this is the dowry for the girl.” So I went to them and said: “This is her dowry.” They accepted it gladly and said: “It is plenty and pure (lawful).”
A little while later, I again returned to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) feeling sad. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked: “Rabi’ah! Why are you sad now?” I replied: “O Messenger of Allah! I have never seen people more noble than them. Whatever I gave them, they were pleased with it and praised it, saying it is plenty and pure (lawful). I have nothing to serve as a wedding feast (walimah) for such people.” So the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) again said to Sayyiduna Buraydah: “Bring a goat for him.” So he brought a very healthy and large ram. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to me: “Go to Aisha and tell her to give the bag in which the grain is kept.” So I went to her and conveyed the message of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). She said: “Here is the bag; it contains nine sa’ of barley, and by Allah! We have nothing else besides this. Take it.” So I took the bag and came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and conveyed Aisha’s message. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Take these two things to those people and tell them to make bread from it.” So I went to them and took the ram with me. Some people from the tribe of Aslam were with me. When I reached there, I told them: “Make bread from this flour and cook the meat of this ram.” They said: “We will take care of the bread, and you take care of the ram.” So I and my companions caught the ram, slaughtered it, skinned it, and began to cook it. In this way, the bread and...
