مسند احمد
Musnad Ahmad
مسند المدنيين رضي الله عنهم اجمعينMusnad of the Madinans
حَدِیث لَقِیطِ بنِ صَبِرَةَ رَضِیَ اللَّه تَعَالَى عَنهHadith of Laqit ibn Sabirah (may Allah be pleased with him)
Hadith 16384
اُردوEn
(حديث مرفوع) حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ كَثِيرٍ أَبُو هَاشِمٍ الْمَكِّيُّ ، عَنْ عَاصِمِ بْنِ لَقِيطِ بْنِ صَبِرَةَ ، عَنْ أَبِيه أو جَدِّه وَافِدِ بَنِي الْمُنْتَفِقِ . قَالَ : انْطَلَقْتُ أَنَا وَصَاحِبٌ لِي حَتَّى انْتَهَيْنَا إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَلَمْ نَجِدْهُ ، فَأَطْعَمَتْنَا عَائِشَةُ تَمْرًا ، وَعَصَدَتْ لَنَا عَصِيدَةً إِذْ جَاءَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَتَقَلَّعُ ، فَقَالَ : " هَلْ أُطْعِمْتُمْ مِنْ شَيْءٍ ؟ " قُلْنَا : نَعَمْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، فَبَيْنَا نَحْنُ كَذَلِكَ دَفَعَ رَاعِي الْغَنَمِ فِي الْمُرَاحِ عَلَى يَدِهِ سَخْلَةٌ ، قَالَ : " هَلْ وَلَدَتْ ؟ " ، قَالَ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : " فَاذْبَحْ لَنَا شَاةً " ، ثُمَّ أَقْبِلْ عَلَيْنَا ، فَقَالَ : " لَا تَحْسِبَنَّ وَلَمْ يَقُلْ : لَا تَحْسَبَنَّ إِنَّا ذَبَحْنَا الشَّاةَ مِنْ أَجْلِكُمَا . لَنَا غَنَمٌ مِائَةٌ لَا نُرِيدُ أَنْ تَزِيدَ عَلَيْهَا ، فَإِذَا وَلَّدَ الرَّاعِي بَهْمَةً أَمَرْنَاهُ بِذَبْحِ شَاةٍ " ، فَقَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، أَخْبِرْنِي عَنِ الْوُضُوءِ ، قَالَ : " إِذَا تَوَضَّأْتَ فَأَسْبِغْ وَخَلِّلْ الْأَصَابِعَ ، وَإِذَا اسْتَنْثَرْتَ ، فَأَبْلِغْ إِلَّا أَنْ تَكُونَ صَائِمًا " ، قَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ لِي امْرَأَةً ، فَذَكَرَ مِنْ طُولِ لِسَانِهَا وَإِيذَائِهَا ، فَقَالَ : " طَلِّقْهَا " ، قَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّهَا ذَاتُ صُحْبَةٍ وَوَلَدٍ ، قَالَ : " فَأَمْسِكْهَا وَأْمُرْهَا ، فَإِنْ يَكُ فِيهَا خَيْرٌ ، فَسَتَفْعَلْ ، وَلَا تَضْرِبْ ظَعِينَتَكَ ضَرْبَكَ أَمَتَكَ " .
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Laqit bin Sabrah that once I, along with a companion, presented myself in the service of the Prophet (ﷺ), but did not find the Prophet (ﷺ) there. Sayyidah Aisha served us dates and prepared food for us by mixing ghee with flour. Meanwhile, the Prophet (ﷺ) also arrived, bending as he walked, and said: "Have you eaten anything?" We replied: "Yes, O Messenger of Allah!" During this, a shepherd from among the goat pens presented a kid goat before the Prophet (ﷺ). The Prophet (ﷺ) asked: "Has the goat given birth?" He said: "Yes." The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Then slaughter a goat," and turning towards us, said: "Do not think that we have slaughtered only because of you, but the matter is that we have a herd of goats. When their number reaches one hundred, we slaughter one from them. We do not wish their number to exceed one hundred." I said: "O Messenger of Allah! Tell me about ablution (wudu)." He said: "When you perform ablution, do it thoroughly and pass your fingers between each other, and when you put water in your nose, do it thoroughly unless you are fasting." I said: "O Messenger of Allah! My wife is very sharp-tongued and rude." The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Divorce her." I said: "O Messenger of Allah! She has been with me for a long time and I have children from her." The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Then keep her with you and continue to advise her. If there is any good in her, she will accept your advice. But do not beat your wife like you would beat your slave-girl."
