Hadith 15763

(حديث مرفوع) حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنَا الْمُسْتَلِمُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا خُبَيْبُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ جَدِّهِ ، قَالَ : أَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَهُوَ يُرِيدُ غَزْوًا ، أَنَا وَرَجُلٌ مِنْ قَوْمِي ، وَلَمْ نُسْلِمْ ، فَقُلْنَا : إِنَّا نَسْتَحْيِي أَنْ يَشْهَدَ قَوْمُنَا مَشْهَدًا لَا نَشْهَدُهُ مَعَهُمْ , قَالَ : " أَوَ أَسْلَمْتُمَا ؟ " , قُلْنَا : لَا , قَالَ : " فَإِنَّا لَا نَسْتَعِينُ بِالْمُشْرِكِينَ عَلَى الْمُشْرِكِينَ " . قَالَ : فَأَسْلَمْنَا ، وَشَهِدْنَا مَعَهُ ، فَقَتَلْتُ رَجُلًا ، وَضَرَبَنِي ضَرْبَةً ، وَتَزَوَّجْتُ بِابْنَتِهِ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ ، فَكَانَتْ تَقُولُ : لَا عَدِمْتَ رَجُلًا وَشَّحَكَ هَذَا الْوِشَاحَ , فَأَقُولُ : لَا عَدِمْتِ رَجُلًا عَجَّلَ أَبَاكِ النَّارَ .
Khubayb bin Abdur Rahman’s grandfather says that once I and a man from my tribe went to the service of the Prophet (peace be upon him) at a time when the Prophet (peace be upon him) was preparing for a battle. We had not accepted Islam until then. We said to the Prophet (peace be upon him): It is a matter of shame for us that our tribe is going for a battle and we do not participate with them, so we will also go with you. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Have both of you accepted Islam? We said: No. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: We do not want to take help from polytheists against polytheists. Upon this, we accepted Islam and participated with the Prophet (peace be upon him). In that battle, I killed a man and he struck me a blow. Later, I married the daughter of that slain man, and she used to say: You will never forget the man who gave you this wound. And I used to say to her: You too will never forget the man who quickly showed your father the way to Hell.
Hadith Reference مسند احمد / مسند المكيين / 15763
Hadith Grading حکم دارالسلام: إسناده ضعيف، عبدالرحمن بن خبيب والد خبيب بن عبدالرحمن، ترجم له البخاري وابن أبى حاتم، ولم يذكرا فى الرواة عنه غير ابنه خبيب. دون قوله: "فلا نستعين بالمشركين على المشركين" فهو صحيح لغيره