مسند احمد
Musnad Ahmad
مسند المكثرين من الصحابةMusnad of the Prolific Narrators Among the Companions
مُسْنَدُ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ تَعَالَى عَنْهُMusnad of Jabir ibn Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him)
Hadith 14306
اُردوEn
(حديث مرفوع) حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ ، قَالَ عَمْرٌو ، سَمِعْتُ جَابِرًا ، يَقُولُ : قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " هَلْ نَكَحْتَ ؟ " ، قُلْتُ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : " أَبِكْرًا ، أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ؟ " قُلْتُ : ثَيِّبًا ، قَالَ : " فَهَلَّا بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُكَ ! " ، قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، قُتِلَ أَبِي يَوْمَ أُحُدٍ ، وَتَرَكَ تِسعَ بَنَاتٍ ، فَكَرِهْتُ أَنْ أَجْمَعَ إِلَيْهِنَّ خَرْقَاءَ مِثْلَهُنَّ ، وَلَكِنْ امْرَأَةً تُمَشِّطُهُنَّ ، وَتُقِومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ ، قَالَ : " أَصَبْتَ " .
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) that once the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked me, "Have you gotten married?" I replied, "Yes." He asked, "To a virgin or to one previously married?" I replied, "To one previously married." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Why did you not marry a virgin so that you could play with her and she could play with you?" I replied, "O Messenger of Allah! My father was martyred in the Battle of Uhud and he left behind seven daughters. I did not think it appropriate to bring someone like them (i.e., inexperienced); I thought of marrying a woman who could look after them." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "You have done the right thing."
