مسند احمد
Musnad Ahmad
مسند المكثرين من الصحابةMusnad of the Prolific Narrators Among the Companions
مُسْنَدُ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ تَعَالَى عَنْهُMusnad of Jabir ibn Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him)
Hadith 14237
اُردوEn
(حديث مرفوع) حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ . ح وَإِسْحَاقُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ الْأَزْرَقُ ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْمَلِكِ ، عَنْ عَطَاءٍ ، عَنْ جَابِرٍ ، قَالَ : تَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَةً عَلَى عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : " يَا جَابِرُ ، أَتَزَوَّجْتَ ؟ " قَالَ : قُلْتُ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : " بِكْرًا أَوْ ثَيِّبًا ؟ " قَالَ : قُلْتُ : ثَيِّبًا ، قَالَ : " أَلَا بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُهَا ! " ، قَالَ : قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، كُنَّ لِي أَخَوَاتٌ ، فَخَشِيتُ أَنْ تَدْخُلَ بَيْنِي وَبَيْنَهُنَّ ، فَقَالَ : " إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ تُنْكَحُ لَدِينِهَا ، وَمَالِهَا ، وَجَمَالِهَا ، فَعَلَيْكَ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ ، تَرِبَتْ يَدَاكَ " .
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) that once the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked me, "Have you gotten married?" I replied, "Yes." He asked, "To a virgin or to one previously married?" I replied, "To one previously married, because I have younger sisters and paternal aunts, and I did not consider it appropriate to bring someone as inexperienced as them among them." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Why did you not marry a virgin so that you could play with her?" Then he said, "A woman is married for her religion, wealth, and beauty; you should select the religious one for yourself. May your hands be dust-covered."
