(حديث مرفوع) حَدَّثَنَا
عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ ، أَخْبَرَنَا
سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ
مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْمُنْكَدِرِ ، عَنْ
جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّه ، قَالَ : قَالَ لي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أَتَزَوَّجْتَ ؟ " ، فَقُلْتُ : نَعَمْ ، فَقَالَ : " أَبِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا " ، فَقُلْتُ : لَا بَلْ ثَيِّبًا ، لِي أَخَوَاتٌ وَعَمَّاتٌ ، فَكَرِهْتُ أَنْ أَضُمَّ إِلَيْهِنَّ خَرْقَاءَ مِثْلَهُنَّ ، قَالَ : " أَفَلَا بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُهَا ؟ " قَالَ : " لَكُمْ أَنْمَاطٌ ؟ " ، قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، وَأَنَّى ؟ فَقَالَ : " أَمَا إِنَّهَا سَتَكُونُ لَكُمْ أَنْمَاطٌ " ، قال : فَأَنَا الْيَوْمَ أَقُولُ لِامْرَأَتِي نَحِّي عَنِّي أَنْمَاطَكِ ، فَتَقُولُ : نَعَمْ ! أَلَمْ يَقُلْ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " إِنَّهَا سَتَكُونُ لَكُمْ أَنْمَاطٌ ؟ ! فَأَتْرُكُهَا " .
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) that once the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked me, "Have you gotten married?" I replied, "Yes." He asked, "To a virgin or to a previously married woman?" I replied, "To a previously married woman, because I have younger sisters and paternal aunts, and I did not think it appropriate to bring someone as inexperienced as them among them." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Why did you not marry a virgin, so that you could play with her?" Then he said, "Soon you will receive woolen garments." I asked, "O Messenger of Allah! From where?" He said, "Soon you will surely receive woolen garments." Now today, when I have received them, I said to my wife, "Keep these woolen garments with you." She said, "Did not the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) say that you would receive woolen garments?" Hearing this, I leave her to her own state.