(حديث مرفوع) حَدَّثَنَا
عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ ، حَدَّثَنَا
مَعْمَرٌ ، عَنْ
ثَابِتٍ الْبُنَانِيِّ ، عَنْ
أَنَسٍ ، قَالَ : خَطَبَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَلَى جُلَيْبِيبٍ امْرَأَةً مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ إِلَى أَبِيهَا ، فَقَالَ : حَتَّى أَسْتَأْمِرَ أُمَّهَا ، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " فَنَعَمْ إِذًا " ، قَالَ : فَانْطَلَقَ الرَّجُلُ إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ ، فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ لَهَا ، فَقَالَتْ : لَا هَا اللَّهُ إِذًا ، أَمَا وَجَدَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِلَّا جُلَيْبِيبًا ، وَقَدْ مَنَعْنَاهَا مِنْ فُلَانٍ وَفُلَانٍ ؟ ! قَالَ : وَالْجَارِيَةُ فِي سِتْرِهَا تَسْتَمِعُ ، قَالَ : فَانْطَلَقَ الرَّجُلُ يُرِيدُ أَنْ يُخْبِرَ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِذَلِكَ ، فَقَالَتْ الْجَارِيَةُ : أَتُرِيدُونَ أَنْ تَرُدُّوا عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَمْرَهُ ؟ ! إِنْ كَانَ قَدْ رَضِيَهُ لَكُمْ ، فَأَنْكِحُوهُ ، قال : فَكَأَنَّهَا جَلَّتْ عَنْ أَبَوَيْهَا ، وَقَالَا : صَدَقْتِ ، فَذَهَبَ أَبُوهَا إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : إِنْ كُنْتَ قَدْ رَضِيتَهُ ، فَقَدْ رَضِينَاهُ ، قَالَ : " فَإِنِّي قَدْ رَضِيتُهُ " ، فَزَوَّجَهَا ، ثُمَّ فَزِعَ أَهْلُ الْمَدِينَةِ ، فَرَكِبَ جُلَيْبِيبٌ فَوَجَدُوهُ قَدْ قُتِلَ وَحَوْلَهُ نَاسٌ مِنَ الْمُشْرِكِينَ قَدْ قَتَلَهُمْ ، قَالَ أَنَسٌ فَلَقَدْ رَأَيْتُهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَمِنْ أَنْفَقِ بَيْتٍ فِي المدينة .
It is narrated from Hazrat Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sent a marriage proposal for Hazrat Julaibib (may Allah be pleased with him) to the father of an Ansari woman. He said, "Let me first consult the girl's mother." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "Very well." That man went to his wife and mentioned the matter to her. She immediately refused, saying, "By God! Never! Did the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) not find anyone other than Julaibib? We have already refused such and such proposals." Meanwhile, the girl was listening from behind her veil. After mutual consultation, when the man was about to go and inform the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), the girl said, "Will you reject the word of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him)? If the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is pleased with this, then you should arrange the marriage." By saying this, she opened her parents' eyes, and they said, "You are right." Thus, her father went to the service of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said, "If you are pleased with this proposal, then we are also pleased." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, "I am pleased." Thus, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) married the girl to Julaibib. After a short time, there was an attack on the people of Madinah. Julaibib also went out mounted. After the battle, people saw that he had been martyred, and around him were several bodies of polytheists whom he had killed single-handedly. Hazrat Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) says, "I have seen that girl; she was the lady of the most generous household in Madinah."