حَدَّثَنَا
عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ يَزِيدَ , حَدَّثَنَا
سَعِيدٌ , حَدَّثَنِي
ابْنُ عَجْلَانَ , عَنْ
زَيْدِ بْنِ أَسْلَمَ , عَنْ
أَبِي صَالِحٍ , عَنْ
أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ , عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ :
" خَيْرُ الصَّدَقَةِ مَا كَانَ مِنْهَا عَنْ ظَهْرِ غِنًى , وَالْيَدُ الْعُلْيَا خَيْرٌ مِنَ الْيَدِ السُّفْلَى , وَابْدَأْ بِمَنْ تَعُولُ " . فَقِيلَ : مَنْ أَعُولُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ؟ قَالَ :
" امْرَأَتُك مِمَّنْ تَعُولُ , تَقُولُ : أَطْعِمْنِي وَإِلَّا فَارِقْنِي , وَجَارِيَتُكَ تَقُولُ : أَطْعِمْنِي وَاسْتَعْمِلْنِي , وَوَلَدُكَ يَقُولُ : إِلَى مَنْ تَتْرُكُنِي " .
It is narrated from Hazrat Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: The best charity is that after which some wealth remains (do not spend all your wealth). The upper hand is better than the lower hand, and you should begin giving charity to those who are under your responsibility. Someone asked Hazrat Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) about the individuals under one's responsibility, so he replied: Your wife says, "Feed me or divorce me." The servant says, "Feed me or sell me to someone else." The children say, "In whose care are you leaving us?"