صحيح مسلم
Sahih Muslim
كتاب النكاح
The Book of Marriage
باب لاَ تَحِلُّ الْمُطَلَّقَةُ ثَلاَثًا لِمُطَلِّقِهَا حَتَّى تَنْكِحَ زَوْجًا غَيْرَهُ وَيَطَأَهَا ثُمَّ يُفَارِقَهَا وَتَنْقَضِي عِدَّتُهَا:
Chapter: It is not permissible for a woman who has been thrice-divorced to return to the one who divorced her until she marries another husband who has intercourse with her, then divorces her, and she completes the 'Iddah
7 hadith
Hadith 1433
حدثنا
أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ ،
وَعَمْرٌو النَّاقِدُ ، وَاللَّفْظُ لِعَمْرٍو ، قَالَا : حدثنا
سُفْيَانُ ، عَنِ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَت : جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةُ رِفَاعَةَ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فقَالَت : كُنْتُ عَنْدَ رِفَاعَةَ ، فَطَلَّقَنِي ، فَبَتَّ طَلَاقِي ، فَتَزَوَّجْتُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ ، وَإِنَّ مَا مَعَهُ مِثْلُ هُدْبَةِ الثَّوْبِ ، فَتَبَسَّمَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فقَالَ : " أَتُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ ؟ لَا ، حَتَّى تَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ ، وَيَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ " ، قَالَت : وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ ، عَنْدَهُ وَخَالِدٌ بِالْبَابِ يَنْتَظِرُ أَنْ يُؤْذَنَ لَهُ ، فَنَادَى : يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ ، أَلَا تَسْمَعُ هَذِهِ مَا تَجْهَرُ بِهِ عَنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ؟ .
'A'isha (Allah he pleased with her) reported: There came the wife of Rifa'a to Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) and said: I was married to Rifa'a but he divorced me, making may divorce irrevocable. Afterwards I married Abdul Rahman bin al-Zubair, but all he possesses is like the fringe of a garment (i. e. he is sexually weak). Thereupon Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) smiled, and said: Do you wish to return to Rifa'a. (You) cannot (do it) until you have tasted his sweetness and he ('Abdul Rahman) has tasted your sweetness. Abu Bakr (RA) was at that time near him (the Holy Prophet) and Khalid (b. Sa'id) was at the door waiting for the permission to be granted to him to enter). He (Khalid) said; Abu Bakr, do you hear what she is saying loudly in the presence of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) ?
Hadith 1433
حَدَّثَنِي
أَبُو الطَّاهِرِ ،
وَحَرْمَلَةُ بْنُ يَحْيَى ، وَاللَّفْظُ لِحَرْمَلَةَ ، قَالَ أَبُو الطَّاهِرِ : حدثنا ، وَقَالَ حَرْمَلَةُ : أَخْبَرَنا
ابْنُ وَهْبٍ ، أَخْبَرَنِي
يُونُسُ ، عَنِ
ابْنِ شِهَابٍ ، حَدَّثَنِي
عُرْوَةُ بْنُ الزُّبَيْرِ ، أَنَّ
عَائِشَةَ زَوْجَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، أَخْبَرَتْهُ : أَنَّ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيَّ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ ، فَبَتَّ طَلَاقَهَا ، فَتَزَوَّجَتْ بَعْدَهُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ ، فَجَاءَتِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فقَالَت : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّهَا كَانَتْ تَحْتَ رِفَاعَةَ ، فَطَلَّقَهَا آخِرَ ثَلَاثِ تَطْلِيقَاتٍ ، فَتَزَوَّجْتُ بَعْدَهُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الزَّبِيرِ ، وَإِنَّهُ وَاللَّهِ مَا مَعَهُ إِلَّا مِثْلُ الْهُدْبَةِ ، وَأَخَذَتْ بِهُدْبَةٍ مِنْ جِلْبَابِهَا ، قَالَ : فَتَبَسَّمَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ضَاحِكًا ، فقَالَ : " لَعَلَّكِ تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ ؟ لَا ، حَتَّى يَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ ، وَتَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ " ، وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ الصِّدِّيقُ جَالِسٌ عَنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، وَخَالِدُ بْنُ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْعَاصِ جَالِسٌ بِبَابِ الْحُجْرَةِ ، لَمْ يُؤْذَنْ لَهُ ، قَالَ : فَطَفِقَ خَالِدٌ ، يُنَادِي : أَبَا بَكْرٍ ، أَلَا تَزْجُرُ هَذِهِ عَمَّا تَجْهَرُ بِهِ عَنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ،
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her), the wife of Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) , reported that Rifa'a al-Quraid (RA) divorced his wife, making her divorce irrevocable. Afterwards she married Abdul Rahman bin al-Zubair (RA) . She came to Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) and said to Allah's messenger (ﷺ) that she had been the wife of Rifa'a (RA) and he had divorced her by three pronouncements and afterwards she married 'Abdul Rahman bin al-Zubair. By Allah, all he possesses is like the fringe of a garment, and she took hold of the fringe of her garment. Thereupon Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) laughed and said: Perhaps you wish to return to Rifa'a, (but you) cannot (do it) until he has tasted your sweetness and you have tasted his sweetness. Abu Bakr al-Siddiq (RA) was sitting at that time with Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) and Khalid bin Sa'id bin al-'As (RA) was sitting at the door of his apartment and he was not permitted to (enter the room), and Khalid called loudly saying: Abu Bakr, why don't you scold her for what she is saying loudly in the presence of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) ?
Hadith 1433
حدثنا
عَبْدُ بْنُ حُمَيْدٍ ، أَخْبَرَنا
عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ ، أَخْبَرَنا
مَعْمَرٌ ، عَنِ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ
عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ : أَنَّ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيَّ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ ، فَتَزَوَّجَهَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ الزَّبِيرِ ، فَجَاءَتِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فقَالَت : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ رِفَاعَةَ طَلَّقَهَا آخِرَ ثَلَاثِ تَطْلِيقَاتٍ ، بِمِثْلِ حَدِيثِ يُونُسَ .
'A'isha (Allah bjpl'eased with her) reported that Rifa'a al Qurazi divorced his wife and afterwards Abdul Rahman bin al-Zubair married her. She came to Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) (may peace he upon him) and said: Messenger of Allah, Rifa'a has divorced me by three pronouncements. (The rest of the hadith is the same.)
Hadith 1433
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) was asked about a woman whom a man married and then divorced her, and then she married (another) person, and she was divorced before sexual intercourse with her, whether it was lawful for her first husband (to marry her in this state). He (the Holy Prophet) said: No, until he has tasted her sweetness.
Hadith 1433
A hadith like this has been narrated on the authority of Hisham with the same chain of transmitters.
Hadith 1433
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: A person divorced his wife by three pronouncements; then another person married her and he also divorced her without having sexual intercourse with her. Then the first husband of her intended to remarry her. It was about such a case that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) was asked, whereupon he said: No, until the second one has tasted her sweetness as the first one had tasted.
Hadith 1433
A hadith like this has been narrated on the same chain of transmitters by 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her).