It is narrated on the authority of 'Abdullah bin Mas'ud that the Holy Prophet (ﷺ) observed: He is not one of us (one among the Ummah of Islam) who beat the cheeks or tore the front opening of the shirt or uttered the slogans of (the days of) Jahiliya (ignorance). Ibn Numair and Abu Bakr (RA) said (instead of the word" au" (or) it is" wa" [and] the words are) and tore and uttered (the slogans) of Jahiliya without" alif".
Hadith Referenceصحيح مسلم / كتاب الإيمان / 103
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij«أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة ، أخرجه البخاري في ((صحيحه)) في الجنائز، باب: ليس منا من ضرب الخدود برقم (1235 و 1236) وفى ((المناقب)) باب: ما ينهى من دعوى الجاهلية برقم (3331) والنسائي في ((المجتبى)) 19/4 في الجنائز، باب: دعوى الجاهلية، وابن ماجه في ((سننه)) في الجنائز، باب: ما جاء في النهى عن ضرب الخدود وشق الجيوب برقم (1584) انظر ((التحفة)) برقم (9569)»
It is narrated on the authority of Abu Burda bin Abu Musa that Abu Musa was afflicted with grave pain and he became unconscious and his head was in the lap of a lady of his household. One of the women of his household walled. He (Abu Musa) was unable (because of weakness) to say anything to her. But when he was a bit recovered he said: I have no concern with one with whom the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) has no concern, Verily the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) has no concern with that woman who wails loudly, shaves her hair and tears (her garment in grief).
Hadith Referenceصحيح مسلم / كتاب الإيمان / 104
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij«أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة ، أخرجه البخاري في ((صحيحه)) في الجنائز، باب ما ينهی عن الحلق عند المصيبة برقم (1234) انظر ((التحفة)) برقم (9125) »
It is narrated on the authority of Abu Burda that Abu Musa fell unconscious and his wife Umm 'Abdullah came there and wailed loudly. When he felt relief he said: Don't you know? -and narrated to her: Verily the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: I have no concern with one who shaved her hair, lamented loudly and tore (her clothes in grief).
Hadith Referenceصحيح مسلم / كتاب الإيمان / 104
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij«أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة ، أخرجه النسائي في الجنائز، باب: الحلق 18/4 - وابن ماجه في ((سننه)) في الجنائز، باب: ما جاء في النهى عن ضرب الخدود وشق الجيوب برقم (1586) انظر ((التحفة)) برقم (9020 و 9081)»
Abdullah ibn Muti’ narrated to us, Hushaim narrated to us, from Husayn, from Iyad al-Ash’ari, from the wife of Abu Musa, from Abu Musa, from the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him. And Hajjaj ibn al-Sha’ir narrated it to me, Abd al-Samad narrated to us, he said: My father narrated to me, Dawud—meaning ibn Abi Hind—narrated to us, Asim narrated to us, from Safwan ibn Muhriz, from Abu Musa, from the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him. And al-Hasan ibn Ali al-Hulwani narrated it to me, Abd al-Samad narrated to us, Shu’bah informed us, from Abd al-Malik ibn Umair, from Rib’i ibn Hirash, from Abu Musa, from the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, with this hadith, except that in the narration of Iyad al-Ash’ari, he said: “He is not one of us,” and he did not say: “He is free (of blame).”
Hadith Referenceصحيح مسلم / كتاب الإيمان / 104
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij«أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة ، أخرجه النسائي في ((المجتبي )) 21/4 في الجنائز، باب: شق الجيوب عن أبي موسی عن طريق امراته ام عبدالله - انظر ((التحفة)) برقم (9153) »