حَدَّثَنِي
عَمْرُو بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ بُكَيْرٍ النَّاقِدُ ، حَدَّثَنَا
سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ ، حَدَّثَنَا وَاللَّهِ
يَزِيدُ بْنُ خُصَيْفَةَ ، عَنْ
بُسْرِ بْنِ سَعِيدٍ ، قال : سَمِعْتُ
أَبَا سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيَّ ، يَقُولُ : كُنْتُ جَالِسًا بِالْمَدِينَةِ فِي مَجْلِسِ الْأَنْصَارِ ، فَأَتَانَا
أَبُو مُوسَى فَزِعًا أَوْ مَذْعُورًا ، قُلْنَا مَا شَأْنُكَ ، قَالَ : إِنَّ عُمَرَ أَرْسَلَ إِلَيَّ أَنْ آتِيَهُ فَأَتَيْتُ بَابَهُ ، فَسَلَّمْتُ ثَلَاثًا ، فَلَمْ يَرُدَّ عَلَيَّ فَرَجَعْتُ ، فَقَالَ : مَا مَنَعَكَ أَنْ تَأْتِيَنَا ؟ فَقُلْتُ : إِنِّي أَتَيْتُكَ فَسَلَّمْتُ عَلَى بَابِكَ ثَلَاثًا ، فَلَمْ يَرُدُّوا عَلَيَّ ، فَرَجَعْتُ ، وَقَدْ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " إِذَا اسْتَأْذَنَ أَحَدُكُمْ ثَلَاثًا ، فَلَمْ يُؤْذَنْ لَهُ فَلْيَرْجِعْ " ، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ : أَقِمْ عَلَيْهِ الْبَيِّنَةَ وَإِلَّا أَوْجَعْتُكَ ، فَقَالَ أُبَيُّ بْنُ كَعْبٍ : لَا يَقُومُ مَعَهُ إِلَّا أَصْغَرُ الْقَوْمِ ، قَالَ أَبُو سَعِيدٍ : قُلْتُ : أَنَا أَصْغَرُ الْقَوْمِ ، قَالَ : فَاذْهَبْ بِهِ .
Abu Sa'id Khudri reported: I was sitting in Madinah in the company of the Ansar that Abu Musa came trembling with fear. We said to him: What is the matter? He said: 'Umar (RA) sent for me. I went to him and paid him salutation thrice at (his) door but he made no response to me and so I came back. Thereupon he ('Umar) said: What stood in your way that you did not turn up? I said: I did come to you and paid you salutations at your door three times but I was not given any response, so I came back as the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) has said: When any one of you seeks permission three times and he was not granted permission, he should come back. Umar said: Bring a witness to support that you say, otherwise I shall take you to task. Ubayy bin Ka'b said: None should stand with him (as a witness) but the youngest amongst the people. Abu Sa'id said: I am the youngest amongst the people, whereupon he said: Then you go with him (to support his contention).
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
1:
From this it is understood that sometimes a lesser person may know a matter of religious knowledge that a great scholar does not know. For example, Umar radi Allahu anhu did not know that after seeking permission three times, if permission is not granted, one should return.
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 2690
Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi
Benefits and Issues:
➊
The original Islamic etiquette for seeking permission is to say "As-salamu alaykum" and to seek permission by saying salam three times.
Knocking or ringing the bell should be analogized to this.
To exceed this is contrary to etiquette; it is possible that the person in the house is engaged in some specific task or is resting, so he should not be disturbed.
Furthermore, when knocking or ringing the bell, one should not display disrespect or rudeness.
It has been observed that some people knock so loudly that even the peace of the neighbors is disturbed.
Similarly, some people ring the bell so continuously as if they intend to raise the dead or make the deaf hear; these are signs of our moral decline.
➋ If permission or a response is not received, one should not become unnecessarily upset, but rather should return.
➌ The reason why Umar (radi Allahu anhu) was so strict in narrating the ahadith of the Messenger (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) was that people might not begin to attribute things to the Messenger (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) without certainty and trust. And may Allah reward him with goodness—this strictness of his was a great wisdom.
Source: Sunan Abu Dawood – Commentary by Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi, Page: 5180
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:
➊
It is prohibited to enter someone’s house without permission.
➋
The method of seeking permission is as follows:
“As-salamu alaykum, may I come in?” (Sunan Abi Dawud, Chapter: How to Seek Permission, Hadith: 5177)
➌
If, upon seeking permission once, there is no response, then one should seek permission a second and third time.
Nowadays, the method of seeking permission has changed, such as ringing the bell; this too should only be done three times at intervals.
If there is no response, one should leave.
One should not disturb the entire neighborhood by repeatedly ringing the bell.
➍
If, after seeking permission three times, permission is still not granted, one should return without being upset with the household.
It is possible that the owner of the house is not present, or there may be a reasonable excuse for not granting permission.
➎
Umar (radi Allahu anhu) requested witnesses because he wanted further assurance.
Another purpose was that when people see that Umar (radi Allahu anhu) is cautious even regarding the hadith of the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) and does not accept it from irresponsible people, then no one will dare to narrate hadiths without thorough investigation.
In this way, irresponsible people will not narrate hadiths with incorrect wording or fabricate them from themselves.
➏
Hadith is the foundation of the religion; therefore, distinguishing between authentic (sahih) and weak (da’if) hadith is very important.
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Weak (da’if) hadiths are present in the books of hadith.
The reason for this is that the Imams of hadith used to mention the chain of narration (isnad) with every hadith, so that the listeners would know the status of the hadith.
Sometimes, they would narrate a weak hadith because it was possible that another chain of narration might be found for it, which would remove its weakness and make the hadith acceptable. However, not every hadith narrated through multiple chains becomes acceptable; rather, certain conditions must be met, the details of which are found in the books of the principles of hadith (usul al-hadith).
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 3706