Anas bin Malik (RA) reported that Umm Sulaim narrated it that she asked the Apostle of Allah (ﷺ) about a woman who sees in a dream what a man sees (sexual dream). The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: In case a woman sees that, she must take a bath. Umm Sulaim said: I was bashful on account of that and said: Does it happen? Upon this the Apostle of Allah (ﷺ) said: Yes (it does happen), otherwise how can (a child) resemble her? Man's discharge (i. e. sperm) is thick and white and the discharge of woman is thin and yellow; so the resemblance comes from the one whose genes prevail or dominate.
Explanation & Benefits
Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
195. Commentary: Both men and women can experience dreams. In a dream, one may also see the act of intercourse, but ritual bath (ghusl) becomes obligatory only when semen (mani) is discharged, whether it is a man or a woman. If semen is not discharged, then even if complete intercourse occurred in the dream, ritual bath is not obligatory. And if, without a dream and without desire, semen is discharged during sleep, then ritual bath becomes obligatory, whether it is a man or a woman. Thus, in a wet dream (ihtilam), the cause for ritual bath is solely the discharge of semen, whether it is from a man or a woman.
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 195
Shaykh Maulana Abdul Aziz Alvi
Hadith Commentary:
Vocabulary of the Hadith:
(1)
يَحُلُّ رَحْلَهُ:
He was untying his saddle or camel-litter.
(2)
حَتْف:
Death.
(3)
هَنِيئًا لَهُ:
Congratulations to him,
may it be a cause of happiness and pleasantness for him.
(4)
شِّمْلَةٌ:
An open cloak or wrap.
(5)
تَلْتَهِبُ:
It is blazing,
it is aflame.
(6)
غَنَائِم:
Plural of ghanimah,
wealth acquired from the enemy at the time of war.
(7)
مَقَاسِم:
Plural of maqsum,
which means something that is divided or distributed.
(8)
شِرَاكٌ:
A leather strap.
Benefits and Issues:
To take anything from something that is jointly owned by all people, without their permission, even if it is a trivial thing, is an extremely grave crime,
which nowadays people do not care about at all.
The epidemic of seizing public property or public places has become widespread,
and items obtained in the context of disasters such as floods,
earthquakes, etc., are consumed as if they were mother's milk,
whereas the one who does this is deprived even of the great rank of martyrdom,
therefore, it is necessary to avoid such actions.
Source: Tuhfat al-Muslim: Commentary on Sahih Muslim, Page: 310