Hadith 2153

حَدَّثَنِي عَمْرُو بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ بُكَيْرٍ النَّاقِدُ ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ ، حَدَّثَنَا وَاللَّهِ يَزِيدُ بْنُ خُصَيْفَةَ ، عَنْ بُسْرِ بْنِ سَعِيدٍ ، قال : سَمِعْتُ أَبَا سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيَّ ، يَقُولُ : كُنْتُ جَالِسًا بِالْمَدِينَةِ فِي مَجْلِسِ الْأَنْصَارِ ، فَأَتَانَا أَبُو مُوسَى فَزِعًا أَوْ مَذْعُورًا ، قُلْنَا مَا شَأْنُكَ ، قَالَ : إِنَّ عُمَرَ أَرْسَلَ إِلَيَّ أَنْ آتِيَهُ فَأَتَيْتُ بَابَهُ ، فَسَلَّمْتُ ثَلَاثًا ، فَلَمْ يَرُدَّ عَلَيَّ فَرَجَعْتُ ، فَقَالَ : مَا مَنَعَكَ أَنْ تَأْتِيَنَا ؟ فَقُلْتُ : إِنِّي أَتَيْتُكَ فَسَلَّمْتُ عَلَى بَابِكَ ثَلَاثًا ، فَلَمْ يَرُدُّوا عَلَيَّ ، فَرَجَعْتُ ، وَقَدْ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " إِذَا اسْتَأْذَنَ أَحَدُكُمْ ثَلَاثًا ، فَلَمْ يُؤْذَنْ لَهُ فَلْيَرْجِعْ " ، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ : أَقِمْ عَلَيْهِ الْبَيِّنَةَ وَإِلَّا أَوْجَعْتُكَ ، فَقَالَ أُبَيُّ بْنُ كَعْبٍ : لَا يَقُومُ مَعَهُ إِلَّا أَصْغَرُ الْقَوْمِ ، قَالَ أَبُو سَعِيدٍ : قُلْتُ : أَنَا أَصْغَرُ الْقَوْمِ ، قَالَ : فَاذْهَبْ بِهِ .
Abu Sa'id Khudri reported: I was sitting in Madinah in the company of the Ansar that Abu Musa came trembling with fear. We said to him: What is the matter? He said: 'Umar (RA) sent for me. I went to him and paid him salutation thrice at (his) door but he made no response to me and so I came back. Thereupon he ('Umar) said: What stood in your way that you did not turn up? I said: I did come to you and paid you salutations at your door three times but I was not given any response, so I came back as the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) has said: When any one of you seeks permission three times and he was not granted permission, he should come back. Umar said: Bring a witness to support that you say, otherwise I shall take you to task. Ubayy bin Ka'b said: None should stand with him (as a witness) but the youngest amongst the people. Abu Sa'id said: I am the youngest amongst the people, whereupon he said: Then you go with him (to support his contention).
Hadith Reference صحيح مسلم / كتاب الآداب / 2153
Hadith Grading محدثین: أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij «أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة»
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حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ، وَابْنُ أَبِي عُمَرَ ، قالا : حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ ، عَنْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ خُصَيْفَةَ ، بِهَذَا الْإِسْنَادِ ، وَزَادَ ابْنُ أَبِي عُمَرَ فِي حَدِيثِهِ ، قَالَ أَبُو سَعِيدٍ : فَقُمْتُ مَعَهُ فَذَهَبْتُ إِلَى عُمَرَ فَشَهِدْتُ .
This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Yazid bin Khusaifa with the same chain of transmitters but with this addition: Abu Sa'id said: So I stood up, and went to 'Umar and gave witness (to what Abu Musa had said).
Hadith Reference صحيح مسلم / كتاب الآداب / 2153
Hadith Grading محدثین: أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij «أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة»
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حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو الطَّاهِرِ ، أَخْبَرَنِي عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ وَهْبٍ ، حَدَّثَنِي عَمْرُو بْنُ الْحَارِثِ ، عَنْ بُكَيْرِ بْنِ الْأَشَجِّ ، أَنَّ بُسْرَ بْنَ سَعِيدٍ ، حَدَّثَهُ ، أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ أَبَا سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيَّ ، يَقُولُ : كُنَّا فِي مَجْلِسٍ عِنْدَ أُبَيِّ بْنِ كَعْبٍ ، فَأَتَى أَبُو مُوسَى الْأَشْعَرِيُّ مُغْضَبًا ، حَتَّى وَقَفَ ، فَقَالَ : أَنْشُدُكُمُ اللَّهَ ، هَلْ سَمِعَ أَحَدٌ مِنْكُمْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، يَقُولُ : " الِاسْتِئْذَانُ ثَلَاثٌ فَإِنْ أُذِنَ لَكَ وَإِلَّا فَارْجِعْ ؟ ، قَالَ أُبَيٌّ : وَمَا ذَاكَ ، قَالَ : اسْتَأْذَنْتُ عَلَى عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ أَمْسِ ثَلَاثَ مَرَّاتٍ ، فَلَمْ يُؤْذَنْ لِي ، فَرَجَعْتُ ثُمَّ جِئْتُهُ الْيَوْمَ ، فَدَخَلْتُ عَلَيْهِ ، فَأَخْبَرْتُهُ أَنِّي جِئْتُ أَمْسِ فَسَلَّمْتُ ثَلَاثًا ثُمَّ انْصَرَفْتُ ، قَالَ : قَدْ سَمِعْنَاكَ وَنَحْنُ حِينَئِذٍ عَلَى شُغْلٍ ، فَلَوْ مَا اسْتَأْذَنْتَ حَتَّى يُؤْذَنَ لَكَ ، قَالَ : اسْتَأْذَنْتُ كَمَا سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، قَالَ : " فَوَاللَّهِ لَأُوجِعَنَّ ظَهْرَكَ وَبَطْنَكَ أَوْ لَتَأْتِيَنَّ بِمَنْ يَشْهَدُ لَكَ عَلَى هَذَا " ، فَقَالَ أُبَيُّ بْنُ كَعْبٍ : فَوَاللَّهِ لَا يَقُومُ مَعَكَ إِلَّا أَحْدَثُنَا سِنًّا قُمْ يَا أَبَا سَعِيدٍ ، فَقُمْتُ حَتَّى أَتَيْتُ عُمَرَ ، فَقُلْتُ قَدْ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ هَذَا .
Abd Sa'id Khudri reported: We were in the company of Ubayy bin Ka'b that Abu Musa Ash'ari came there in a state of anger. He stood (before us) and said: I ask you to bear witness in the name of Allah whether anyone amongst you heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying: Permission (for entering the house) should be sought three times and if permission is granted to you (then get in), otherwise go back. Ubayy bin Ka'b said: What is the matter? He said: I sought permission yesterday from 'Umar bin Khattab three times but he did not permit me, so I came back; then I went to him today and visited him and informed him that I had come to him yesterday and greeted him thrice, then came back, whereupon he said: Yes, we did hear you but be were at that time busy, but why did you not seek permission (further and you must have never gone back until you were permitted to do so). He said: I sought permission (in the manner) that I heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) having said (in connection 'With the seeking of permission for entering the house of a stranger). Thereupon he (Hadrat Umar) said: By Allah, I shall torture your back and your stomach unless you bring one who may bear witness to what you state. 'Ubayy bin Ka'b said: By Allah, none should stand with you (to bear testimony) but the youngest amongst us. And he therefore, said to Abu Sa'id: Stand up. So I stood up until I came to Umar and said: I heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) say this.
Hadith Reference صحيح مسلم / كتاب الآداب / 2153
Hadith Grading محدثین: أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij «أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة»
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حَدَّثَنَا نَصْرُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الْجَهْضَمِيُّ ، حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرٌ يَعْنِي ابْنَ مُفَضَّلٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ ، عَنْ أَبِي نَضْرَةَ ، عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ ، أَنَّ أَبَا مُوسَى أَتَى بَابَ عُمَرَ ، فَاسْتَأْذَنَ ، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ : وَاحِدَةٌ ثُمَّ اسْتَأْذَنَ الثَّانِيَةَ ، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ : ثِنْتَانِ ثُمَّ اسْتَأْذَنَ الثَّالِثَةَ ، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ : ثَلَاثٌ ثُمَّ انْصَرَفَ ، فَأَتْبَعَهُ فَرَدَّهُ ، فَقَالَ : إِنْ كَانَ هَذَا شَيْئًا حَفِظْتَهُ مِنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَهَا وَإِلَّا فَلَأَجْعَلَنَّكَ عِظَةً ، قَالَ أَبُو سَعِيدٍ : فَأَتَانَا ، فَقَالَ : أَلَمْ تَعْلَمُوا أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ : " الِاسْتِئْذَانُ ثَلَاثٌ " ، قَالَ : فَجَعَلُوا يَضْحَكُونَ ، قَالَ : فَقُلْتُ : أَتَاكُمْ أَخُوكُمُ الْمُسْلِمُ قَدْ أُفْزِعَ تَضْحَكُونَ انْطَلِقْ فَأَنَا شَرِيكُكَ فِي هَذِهِ الْعُقُوبَةِ ، فَأَتَاهُ ، فَقَالَ : هَذَا أَبُو سَعِيدٍ .
Abu Sa'id reported that Abu Musa al-Ash'ari came to the door of 'Umar and sought his permission (to get into his house). Umar said: That is once. He again sought permission for the second time and 'Umar said: It is twice. He again sought permission for the third time and Umar said: It is thrice. He (Abu Musa) then went back. He (Hadrat 'Umar) (sent someone) to pursue him so that he should be brought back. Thereupon he (Hadrat Umar) said: If this act (of yours is in accordance with the command of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) you have preserved in your mind, then it is all right, otherwise (I shall give you such a severe punishment) that it will serve as an example to others. Abu Sa'id said: Then he (Abu Musa) came to us and said: Do you remember Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) having said this: "Permission is for three times"? They (Companions sitting in that company) began to laugh, whereupon he (Abu Musa) said: There comes to you your Muslim brother who had been perturbed and you laugh. Abu Sa'id said: (Well), you go forth. I shall be your participant in this trouble of yours. So he came to him (Hadrat Umar) and said: Here is Abu Sa'id (to support my statement).
Hadith Reference صحيح مسلم / كتاب الآداب / 2153
Hadith Grading محدثین: أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij «أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة»
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وحَدَّثَنِي مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ حَاتِمٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَي بْنُ سَعِيدٍ الْقَطَّانُ ، عَنْ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا عَطَاءٌ ، عَنْ عُبَيْدِ بْنِ عُمَيْرٍ ، أَنَّ أَبَا مُوسَى اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَى عُمَرَ ثَلَاثًا ، فَكَأَنَّهُ وَجَدَهُ مَشْغُولًا فَرَجَعَ ، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ : أَلَمْ تَسْمَعْ صَوْتَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ ائْذَنُوا لَهُ ، فَدُعِيَ لَهُ ، فَقَالَ : مَا حَمَلَكَ عَلَى مَا صَنَعْتَ ؟ قَالَ : إِنَّا كُنَّا نُؤْمَرُ بِهَذَا ، قَالَ : لَتُقِيمَنَّ عَلَى هَذَا بَيِّنَةً أَوْ لَأَفْعَلَنَّ فَخَرَجَ فَانْطَلَقَ إِلَى مَجْلِسٍ مِنْ الْأَنْصَارِ ، فَقَالُوا : لَا يَشْهَدُ لَكَ عَلَى هَذَا إِلَّا أَصْغَرُنَا ، فَقَامَ أَبُو سَعِيدٍ ، فَقَالَ : كُنَّا نُؤْمَرُ بِهَذَا ، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ : خَفِيَ عَلَيَّ هَذَا مِنْ أَمْرِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَلْهَانِي عَنْهُ الصَّفْقُ بِالْأَسْوَاقِ " .
'Ubaid bin Umair reported that Abu Musa brought permission from Umar (to enter the house) three times, and finding him busy came back, whereupon Umar said (to the inmates of his house): Did you not hear the voice of 'Abdullah bin Qais (RA) (the Kunya of Abu Musa Ash'ari)? He was called back and he (Hadrat 'Umar) said: What did prompt you to do it? Thereupon, he said: This is how we have been commanded to act. He (Hadrat 'Umar) said: Bring evidence (in support of it), otherwise I shall deal (strictly) with you. So he (Abu Musa) set out and came to the meeting of the Ansar and asked them to bear witness before hadrat Umar about this. They (the Companions present there) said: None but the youngest amongst us would bear out this fact. So Abu Sa'id Khudri (who was the youngest one in that company) said: We have been commanded to do so (while visiting the house of other people). Thereupon 'Umar said: This command of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) had remained hidden from me up till now due to (my) business in the market.
Hadith Reference صحيح مسلم / كتاب الآداب / 2153
Hadith Grading محدثین: أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij «أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة»
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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَاصِمٍ . ح وحَدَّثَنَا حُسَيْنُ بْنُ حُرَيْثٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا النَّضْرُ يَعْنِى بْنُ شُمَيْلٍ ، قَالَا جَمِيعًا : حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ بِهَذَا الْإِسْنَادِ نَحْوَهُ ، وَلَمْ يَذْكُرَ فِي حَدِيثِ النَّضْرِ أَلْهَانِي عَنْهُ الصَّفْقُ بِالْأَسْوَاقِ .
This hadith has been transmitted on the authority of Ibn Juraij, but there is no mention of the words "business in the market".
Hadith Reference صحيح مسلم / كتاب الآداب / 2153
Hadith Grading محدثین: أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij «أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة»
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Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Maulana Abdul Aziz Alvi
Hadith Commentary:
Benefits and Issues:
From this hadith, it is understood that Umar (radi Allahu anhu) demanded evidence (bayyinah) from Abu Musa (radi Allahu anhu) on the following day.
Since from other ahadith it is known that Umar (radi Allahu anhu) summoned Abu Musa al-Ash'ari (radi Allahu anhu) on that same day and, upon his response, demanded evidence, the answer to this is that Umar (radi Allahu anhu), after becoming free from his engagements,
inquired about him, and when he was informed that he had come and left, he sent a messenger to him,
but he could not be found, and so he himself appeared the next day.
Source: Tuhfat al-Muslim: Commentary on Sahih Muslim, Page: 5628
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
1:
From this it is understood that sometimes a lesser person may know a matter of religious knowledge that a great scholar does not know. For example, Umar radi Allahu anhu did not know that after seeking permission three times, if permission is not granted, one should return.
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 2690
Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi
Benefits and Issues:

The original Islamic etiquette for seeking permission is to say "As-salamu alaykum" and to seek permission by saying salam three times.
Knocking or ringing the bell should be analogized to this.
To exceed this is contrary to etiquette; it is possible that the person in the house is engaged in some specific task or is resting, so he should not be disturbed.
Furthermore, when knocking or ringing the bell, one should not display disrespect or rudeness.
It has been observed that some people knock so loudly that even the peace of the neighbors is disturbed.
Similarly, some people ring the bell so continuously as if they intend to raise the dead or make the deaf hear; these are signs of our moral decline.

➋ If permission or a response is not received, one should not become unnecessarily upset, but rather should return.

➌ The reason why Umar (radi Allahu anhu) was so strict in narrating the ahadith of the Messenger (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) was that people might not begin to attribute things to the Messenger (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) without certainty and trust. And may Allah reward him with goodness—this strictness of his was a great wisdom.
Source: Sunan Abu Dawood – Commentary by Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi, Page: 5180
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:


It is prohibited to enter someone’s house without permission.


The method of seeking permission is as follows:
“As-salamu alaykum, may I come in?” (Sunan Abi Dawud, Chapter: How to Seek Permission, Hadith: 5177)


If, upon seeking permission once, there is no response, then one should seek permission a second and third time.
Nowadays, the method of seeking permission has changed, such as ringing the bell; this too should only be done three times at intervals.
If there is no response, one should leave.
One should not disturb the entire neighborhood by repeatedly ringing the bell.


If, after seeking permission three times, permission is still not granted, one should return without being upset with the household.
It is possible that the owner of the house is not present, or there may be a reasonable excuse for not granting permission.


Umar (radi Allahu anhu) requested witnesses because he wanted further assurance.
Another purpose was that when people see that Umar (radi Allahu anhu) is cautious even regarding the hadith of the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) and does not accept it from irresponsible people, then no one will dare to narrate hadiths without thorough investigation.
In this way, irresponsible people will not narrate hadiths with incorrect wording or fabricate them from themselves.


Hadith is the foundation of the religion; therefore, distinguishing between authentic (sahih) and weak (da’if) hadith is very important.


Weak (da’if) hadiths are present in the books of hadith.
The reason for this is that the Imams of hadith used to mention the chain of narration (isnad) with every hadith, so that the listeners would know the status of the hadith.
Sometimes, they would narrate a weak hadith because it was possible that another chain of narration might be found for it, which would remove its weakness and make the hadith acceptable. However, not every hadith narrated through multiple chains becomes acceptable; rather, certain conditions must be met, the details of which are found in the books of the principles of hadith (usul al-hadith).
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 3706