Hadith 1714

حَدَّثَنِي عَلِيُّ بْنُ حُجْرٍ السَّعْدِيُّ ، حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : " دَخَلَتْ هِنْدٌ بِنْتُ عُتْبَةَ امْرَأَةُ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ ، لَا يُعْطِينِي مِنَ النَّفَقَةِ مَا يَكْفِينِي وَيَكْفِي بَنِيَّ ، إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْ مَالِهِ بِغَيْرِ عِلْمِهِ ، فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ فِي ذَلِكَ مِنْ جُنَاحٍ ؟ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " خُذِي مِنْ مَالِهِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَيَكْفِي بَنِيكِ " ،
A'isha reported: Hind, the daughter of 'Utba, wife of Abu Sufyan (RA) , came to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) and said: Abu Sufyan (RA) is a miserly person. He does not give adequate maintenance for me and my children, but (I am constrained) to take from his wealth (some part of it) without his knowledge. Is there any sin for me? Thereupon Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: Take from his property what is customary which may suffice you and your children.
Hadith Reference صحيح مسلم / كتاب الأقضية / 1714
Hadith Grading محدثین: أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij «أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة»
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This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Hisham with the same chain of transmitters.
Hadith Reference صحيح مسلم / كتاب الأقضية / 1714
Hadith Grading محدثین: أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij «أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة»
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وحَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ بْنُ حُمَيْدٍ ، أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ ، أَخْبَرَنَا مَعْمَرٌ ، عَنْ الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : " جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، وَاللَّهِ مَا كَانَ عَلَى ظَهْرِ الْأَرْضِ أَهْلُ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبَّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ أَنْ يُذِلَّهُمُ اللَّهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ ، وَمَا عَلَى ظَهْرِ الْأَرْضِ أَهْلُ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبَّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ أَنْ يُعِزَّهُمُ اللَّهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ ، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : وَأَيْضًا وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ ، ثُمَّ قَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ مُمْسِكٌ ، فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ حَرَجٌ أَنْ أُنْفِقَ عَلَى عِيَالِهِ مِنْ مَالِهِ بِغَيْرِ إِذْنِهِ ؟ ، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : لَا حَرَجَ عَلَيْكِ أَنْ تُنْفِقِي عَلَيْهِمْ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ " .
A'isha reported that Hind came to Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) and said: Messenger of Allah, by Allah, there was no other household upon the surface of the earth than your household about which I cherished Allah bringing disgrace upon it, (and now) there is no other household upon the surface of the earth than your household about which I cherish Allah granting it honour. Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) said: It is so, by Him in Whose Hand is my life She said: Allah's Messenger, Abu Sufyan (RA) is a niggardly person. Is there any harm for me if I spend upon his children out of his wealth without his permission? Thereupon Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) said: There is no harm for you if you spend upon them what is reasonable.
Hadith Reference صحيح مسلم / كتاب الأقضية / 1714
Hadith Grading محدثین: أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij «أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة»
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حَدَّثَنَا زُهَيْرُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا يَعْقُوبُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ ، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَخِي الزُّهْرِيِّ ، عَنْ عَمِّهِ ، أَخْبَرَنِي عُرْوَةُ بْنُ الزُّبَيْرِ ، أَنَّ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ : " جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ بِنْتُ عُتْبَةَ بْنِ رَبِيعَةَ ، فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، وَاللَّهِ مَا كَانَ عَلَى ظَهْرِ الْأَرْضِ خِبَاءٌ أَحَبَّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ أَنْ يَذِلُّوا مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ ، وَمَا أَصْبَحَ الْيَوْمَ عَلَى ظَهْرِ الْأَرْضِ خِبَاءٌ أَحَبَّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ أَنْ يَعِزُّوا مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : وَأَيْضًا وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ ، ثُمَّ قَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ مِسِّيكٌ ، فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ حَرَجٌ مِنْ أَنْ أُطْعِمَ مِنَ الَّذِي لَهُ عِيَالَنَا ؟ ، فَقَالَ لَهَا : لَا إِلَّا بِالْمَعْرُوفِ " .
A'isha reported that Hind, daughter of Utba h. Rabi', came to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) and said: Allah's Messenger, by Allah, there was no household upon the surface of the earth than your household about which I cherished that it should be disgraced. But today there is no household on the surface of the earth than your household about which I cherish that it be honoured. Thereupon Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said. It will increase, by Him in Whose Hand is my life. She then said: Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan (RA) is a niggardly person; is there any harm for me if I spend out of that which belongs to him on our children? He said to her: No, but only that what is reasonable.
Hadith Reference صحيح مسلم / كتاب الأقضية / 1714
Hadith Grading محدثین: أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij «أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة»
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Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Maulana Abdul Aziz Alvi
Hadith Commentary: Benefits and Issues:
This hadith establishes that a mufti is not obligated to listen to the opposing party;
he may simply provide the answer to the issue.
When Hind radi Allahu anha asked the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam whether she could take from her husband’s wealth—since he did not provide full maintenance—an amount sufficient for herself and her children, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, without calling for Sufyan, replied that according to the custom and practice of the time, she could take as much as she needed for her maintenance.
In light of this issue, the scholars have discussed whether, if a creditor is owed a debt by a debtor who does not pay, and some of the debtor’s property comes into the creditor’s possession, the creditor may deduct his due from it. Imam Ibn Qudamah has detailed this as follows:

(1)
If the debtor acknowledges the debt and is also willing to pay, then by consensus, it is not permissible for the creditor to take his due from the property that comes into his possession without the debtor’s permission.
If he does deduct his due, he must return it, even if the property in his possession is of the same kind as the debt.

(2)
If there is some obstacle in the debtor’s payment of the debt—for example, he is destitute and needy, or he requests a delay—then again, by consensus, it is not permissible to take one’s due from the property in one’s possession without the debtor’s permission.

(3)
If the debtor, without excuse or necessity, does not pay the debt, and the creditor can recover his due through the court, then even in this case, it is not permissible to take one’s due on one’s own authority.

(4)
If the debtor denies the debt, and the creditor has no evidence, and he cannot recover his due through the court, then there is a difference of opinion among the imams.
Imam Shafi’i’s view is that the creditor may take his due from the property in his possession, whether it is of the same kind as the debt or not.
One opinion of Imam Malik is the same.
The well-known opinion of Imam Ahmad is that he may not take his due from the property in his possession; he must return that property and demand his debt separately.
This is also the second opinion of Imam Malik.
Imam Abu Hanifah’s view is that if the property in his possession is of the same kind as the debt, then it is permissible; otherwise, it is not permissible.
This is also the third opinion of Imam Malik.
(al-Mughni, Kitab al-Da‘awa wa’l-Bayyinat, vol. 14, pp. 339–340)
The later Hanafi jurists have given the fatwa according to Imam Shafi’i’s position.
(Takmila, vol. 2, p. 580)
Source: Tuhfat al-Muslim: Commentary on Sahih Muslim, Page: 4477