Hadith 1484

This hadith is listed as number 3722 in Maktaba Shamila

وَحَدَّثَنِي أَبُو الطَّاهِرِ ، وَحَرْمَلَةُ بْنُ يَحْيَى ، وَتَقَارَبَا فِي اللَّفْظِ ، قَالَ حَرْمَلَةُ : حدثنا ، وقَالَ أَبُو الطَّاهِرِ : أَخْبَرَنا ابْنُ وَهْبٍ ، حَدَّثَنِي يُونُسُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ ، حَدَّثَنِي عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُتْبَةَ بْنِ مَسْعُودٍ : أَنَّ أَبَاهُ كَتَبَ إِلَى عُمَرَ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ الْأَرْقَمِ الزُّهْرِيِّ يَأْمُرُهُ أَنْ يَدْخُلَ عَلَى سُبَيْعَةَ بِنْتِ الْحَارِثِ الْأَسْلَمِيَّةِ ، فَيَسْأَلَهَا عَنْ حَدِيثِهَا ، وَعَمَّا قَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حِينَ اسْتَفْتَتْهُ ؟ فَكَتَبَ عُمَرُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ إِلَى عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُتْبَةَ ، يُخْبِرُهُ ، أَنَّ سُبَيْعَةَ ، أَخْبَرَتْهُ : أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ تَحْتَ سَعْدِ بْنِ خَوْلَةَ وَهُوَ فِي بَنِي عَامِرِ بْنِ لُؤَيٍّ ، وَكَانَ مِمَّنْ شَهِدَ بَدْرًا ، فَتُوُفِّيَ عَنْهَا فِي حَجَّةِ الْوَدَاعِ وَهِيَ حَامِلٌ ، فَلَمْ تَنْشَبْ أَنْ وَضَعَتْ حَمْلَهَا بَعْدَ وَفَاتِهِ ، فَلَمَّا تَعَلَّتْ مِنْ نِفَاسِهَا ، تَجَمَّلَتْ لِلْخُطَّابِ ، فَدَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا أَبُو السَّنَابِلِ بْنُ بَعْكَكٍ رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَنِي عَبْدِ الدَّارِ ، فقَالَ لَهَا : مَا لِي أَرَاكِ مُتَجَمِّلَةً لَعَلَّكِ تَرْجِينَ النِّكَاحَ ، إِنَّكِ وَاللَّهِ مَا أَنْتِ بِنَاكِحٍ حَتَّى تَمُرَّ عَلَيْكِ أَرْبَعَةُ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرٌ ، قَالَت سُبَيْعَةُ : فَلَمَّا قَالَ لِي ذَلِكَ جَمَعْتُ عَلَيَّ ثِيَابِي حِينَ أَمْسَيْتُ ، فَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَسَأَلْتُهُ عَنْ ذَلِكَ ، " فَأَفْتَانِي بِأَنِّي قَدْ حَلَلْتُ حِينَ وَضَعْتُ حَمْلِي ، وَأَمَرَنِي بِالتَّزَوُّجِ إِنْ بَدَا لِي " ، قَالَ ابْنُ شِهَابٍ : فَلَا أَرَى بَأْسًا أَنْ تَتَزَوَّجَ حِينَ وَضَعَتْ ، وَإِنْ كَانَتْ فِي دَمِهَا غَيْرَ أَنْ لَا يَقْرَبُهَا زَوْجُهَا حَتَّى تَطْهُرَ .
'Ubaidullah bin 'Abdullah bin 'Utba (b. Mas'ud) reported that his father wrote to Umar bin 'Abdullah b al Arqam al-Zuhri that he would go to Subai'ah bint al-Hirith al-Aslamiyya (Allah be pleased with her) and ask her about a verdict from him which Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) gave her when she had asked that from him (in regard to the termination of 'Idda at the birth of a child) 'Umar bin'Abdullah wrote to 'Abdullah bin 'Utba informing him that Subai'ah had told him that she had been married to Sa'd bin Khaula and he belonged to the tribe of Amir bin Lu'ayy, and was one of those who participated in the Battle of Badr, and he died in the Farewell Pilgrimage and she had been in the family way at that time. And much time had not elapsed that she gave birth to a child after his death and when she was free from the effects of childbirth she embellished herself for those who had to give proposals of marriage. Abdul Sunabil bin Ba'kak (from Banu 'Abdul Dar) came to her and said: What is this that I see you embellished; perhaps you are inclined to marry, By Allah, you cannot marry unless four months and ten days (of 'Idda are passed). When he said that, I dressed myself, and as it was evening I came to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) and asked him about it, and he gave me a religious verdict that I was allowed to marry when I had given birth to a child and asked me to marry if I so liked. Ibn Shihab said: I do not find any harm fur her in marrying when she has given birth to a child even when she is bleeding (after the birth of the child) except that her husband should not go near her until she is purified.
Hadith Reference صحيح مسلم / كتاب الطلاق / 1484
Hadith Grading محدثین: أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة
Hadith Takhrij «أحاديث صحيح مسلم كلها صحيحة»
Explanation & Benefits
Shaykh Maulana Abdul Aziz Alvi
Hadith Commentary:
Vocabulary of the Hadith:
(1)
LAM TANSHAB:
Not much time had passed over it,
that is, after only a short period.

(2)
FALAMMA TA'ALLAT MIN NIFASIHA:
When she became pure from the blood of childbirth,
i.e., when the postnatal bleeding (nifas) ended.

Benefits and Issues:
Abu Sanabil radi Allahu anhu had sent a proposal of marriage to Sabi'ah Aslamiyyah, and after him, Abu Bishr bin Harith radi Allahu anhu also sent a proposal.
Abu Bishr was younger compared to Abu Sanabil radi Allahu anhu.
Therefore, Abu Sanabil felt concerned that she might incline towards him, and since she had no guardian (wali) present, he thought,
the guardian would give preference to me.
For this reason, he said to her that she could not marry yet.
However, the issue on which the four Imams (a'immah arba'ah) are unanimous, and which is also the view of the majority of the Companions and Followers (tabi'in), is that when a woman is pregnant at the time of her husband's death or divorce, her waiting period (iddah) is completed as soon as she gives birth.
Whether the pregnancy ends after a few days or after nine or ten months. But the position of Ali radi Allahu anhu and Ibn Abbas radi Allahu anhuma was that whichever is later between childbirth and four months and ten days,
that should be considered.
For example, if childbirth occurs after five months, then that will be considered, and if childbirth occurs before four months and ten days,
then the period of four months and ten days will be considered.
Thus, according to the majority of jurists (fuqaha), after giving birth, a woman can marry even during the period of postnatal bleeding (nifas).
However, the husband may have intercourse only after she becomes pure from the blood.
But according to Hasan Basri rahimahullah,
Shu'bi rahimahullah,
Ibrahim rahimahullah,
and Nakha'i rahimahullah, she may marry only after becoming pure from nifas.
Source: Tuhfat al-Muslim: Commentary on Sahih Muslim, Page: 3722
Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
Hazrat Sa'd bin Khawlah was a Muhajir (emigrant), but during the Farewell Pilgrimage (Hajjat al-Wada'), he passed away in Makkah al-Mukarramah itself. The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) also expressed sorrow over this. Radi Allahu anhu wa ardaahu.
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 3550
Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
Urdu marginal note:
“When you have delivered the child,” meaning that the waiting period (iddah) is completed with childbirth (delivery of the child). However, since generally marriage is not contracted during the state of postnatal bleeding (nifas), therefore in some narrations it is stated, “when you become pure…etc.” Otherwise, nifas is not included in the waiting period (iddah).
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 3548
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:
➊ The meaning of preparing for marriage is that she took off the plain clothing of the waiting period (‘iddah) and put on good clothing and adorned herself.

➋ The request for a supplication of forgiveness meant that she thought she had made a mistake by breaking the restrictions of the waiting period (‘iddah) before its due time. The meaning of the statement of the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) is that the waiting period (‘iddah) has ended, therefore you have not made any mistake, so do not be distressed.
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 2028