Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah

It is narrated from Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) that if a woman gives charity properly from her husband's house, she will receive its reward, and the husband will receive a reward equal to what he earned, and the woman will receive a reward equal to what she spent, and the treasurer will also receive a reward equal to that. And in the narration of Hazrat Abu Muawiyah, there is an addition: without any reduction in their rewards.

A woman asked Hazrat Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them): "A needy person comes to me; can I give charity from my husband's wealth without his permission?" He disliked this and said to her: "Would you allow your husband to give your jewelry in charity without your permission?"

Hazrat Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that a woman should not give charity from her food (provision) except with permission, and it is not permissible to give charity from her husband's wealth without his permission, and (if she does so) the reward will be for both of them.

It is narrated from Umm Salih that a woman asked Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her): "Can a woman take something from her husband's house without his permission?" She replied: "There is no difference whether she does so or breaks into her neighbor's house and steals. (That is, using something of the husband without permission and stealing from the neighbor's house are equal.)"

It is narrated from Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) that Hazrat Hind came to the service of the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said, "O Messenger of Allah! Abu Sufyan is a miserly man and does not give me enough that is sufficient for me and my children, so I take something from his wealth without his permission." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Take from his wealth in a good manner what is sufficient for you and your children."

It is narrated from Hasan that a man came to the service of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)! What is the ruling (matter) between me and my wife? He (the Prophet) said: What matter between you two? He said: She gives charity from my house without my permission. He (the Prophet) said: The reward will be for both of you. He said: What if I prevent her from doing so? He (the Prophet) said: She will get the reward for what she intended, and for you (there is blame) because you acted with miserliness.

It is narrated from Hazrat Sa’d that when the Prophet (peace be upon him) took the pledge of allegiance from the women, a woman stood up as if she was from the tribe of Mudar, and said, “O Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him)! Everything is for our fathers, husbands, and sons; what is lawful for us from these wealths?” The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Every moist thing (which cannot be stored), eat it and also give it as a gift.”

Hazrat Abu Umamah Bahili (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that I heard the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) saying during the Farewell Pilgrimage: No woman should spend from her husband's house without his permission. It was asked, O Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him)! Even food? He (peace be upon him) replied: That is the best of wealth.