Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah

Hazrat Iyad Ash'ari narrates that when Hazrat Abu Musa fell unconscious, his wife began to scream. When he regained consciousness, he said to his wife, "Do you not know what I had told you?" She says that when he passed away, she did not wail over him. We asked, "What did Abu Musa say to you?" The wife replied, "He said: He is not from among us who strikes the cheeks (face), tears the collar, or cries out loudly."