Mukhtasar Muslim

Umm al-Mu'mineen Aisha Siddiqa (may Allah be pleased with her) says that Hind (the wife of Abu Sufyan) came to the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and said, "O Messenger of Allah! By Allah, there was no household on the face of the earth whom I wished to be humiliated by Allah more than your household. But now, there is no household on the face of the earth whose honor I desire more than your household." The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Yes, by the One in whose hand is my soul." Then Hind (may Allah be pleased with her) said, "O Messenger of Allah! Abu Sufyan (may Allah be pleased with him) is a miserly man. If I spend something from his wealth on his family without his permission, will I be sinful?" The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "If you spend on his family in a good manner (avoiding extravagance), then there is no sin upon you."